CD gespreksgroep codependentie 18-12-2011

This butterfly is on the CD that was created from the afternoon

Today, 18-12-2011 held an afternoon talk about codependency in my home. Johan, Riemke, Cornelie and Arthur were the participants shared their experiences about the dysfunctional family.

It is striking that both Riemke as at Cornelie the situation so that their parents had wished she were a boy and had his. For me that was reversed. I had my mother is a girl and should therefore not be. It was striking how many negative messages we all received in our youth. I suggested that for every negative message 20 positive should stand e.e.a. neutralizing.

We shared and Arthur said he felt really good to feel that he was not the only one and there was not only. I have, of course with the consent of the participants, a recording of ca.42 minutes made heard here: Gespreksgroep 181211

We have 2 h finely divided in peace, love and harmony and I was stirred to allow tranens. The participants thanked me for the nice afternoon. We ruled out, gave no advice, but listened and shared and that was very nice and encouraging.

Participants found my ocean drum very beautiful, here you can get away from meegenieten: Ocean drum