Klagen

I spoke today(17-11-2011) Will my friend from Florida who told me he i.v.m. Near interests had a conversation with the alderman. He hung notes in his small apartment 85 apartment and got no response. He said that people wait and take no action but complain.

I want also told the story of my visit to the pub jeopardy to the Brink in Deventer. I met a heating technician there who told me that he came home with many people and that he had to hear much complaining and it was crazy. I asked him:"Did you ever asked a question?’. "No," he replied. Ik zei:"Maybe it's a good idea to ask in future what they have done to solve their problems, probably nothing to be nice but complain '

Those who say they do not complain about the conditions. Complainants see difficulties into opportunities and winners see opportunities in difficulties.

Occasionally I also complain sometimes and limit myself to complain about 15 minutes, grumble, zeiken, nag and nag and then air.

The old spoke French to me that I did not return him to call so I did not, later he complained drone he heard nothing more from me(-) Instead of speaking he would be grateful to hear from me, which sounds a lot more positive and friendly.

If you are grateful you do not complain, but the saying:"Gratitude is a flower that blooms in little gardens'. Very stupid, because gratitude leads to abundance and happiness. The more you God, Man, Brahma or whatever you want to call it also owes, The more you are open to the blessings. You accept then that everything that is beneficial for you consider yourself to eternity, then even your death, The best for you, because you are then obviously needed in the spiritual world.

Complaining is due to ignorance and unconsciousness, you accept life as it comes or not, you want something different and thinks itself better to know what is good for you. Jezus zei:"Thy will be done ', we must surrender to it and cooperate with the grace instead of jamming and complain

I once made the mistake of complaining to a narcissist on the harmful effects of his narcissism, He defended that right away by saying that he needed his narcissism.. I should have known a narcissist can not stand criticism, and not empathetic. I could ask him if he was willing to delve further into my situation, then it was not a criticism, not complain geweesr, but a friendly request. is an old Dutch proverb:"Because someone gispen Jell only ge him '

Abuse is often not productive, say what you want from another well, So say what is needed or desired, and speak it out. Let me know if you'd rather complain that you have not heard. Everyone wants to be heard, but almost no one wants to listen, I do.