I speak regularly woman, I'll call her Carla, with implosive and repressed anger in them that they can not express themselves and then the there other ways in which they are not aware of is o.a. by continuous transverse lie and be counter-mine and so unconsciously try to make the other person angry about her anger yourself not to feel and to play another one and then the other to blame.
I told her the story of Miss Kleefkens of high school who gave Dutch and said in a Monday morning:"I think you have no sense in Dutch 'No' we said all together. "What do you talking about" she asked. We said 'space' and she started to our surprise talk about space and after half an hour they switched to Dutch and had our interest, well which Kleefkens. Then said Carla "That was not much fun for the kids who did not love space 'and was back transverse. 'Are you angry now?!"She asked expectantly and almost hopeful, I said no, why would I'. Beware that another anger is not going to project on you and let you play through
There are people who make a sport to get you from the blood under the nails of their sarcasm, spot, cynicism, jamming, Playing devil's advocate, etc.etc. all sublimations of repressed anger that they do not want to see themselves and therefore would let you play…
So is the story of Aunt Clara her husband asked what he wanted to eat, he said Doppers, and snapped when she said "But we've already eaten yesterday!'' Then sprouts but "the man said," But you know very well that I do not like, "she snapped back. "Well then do carrots but" the man said what annoyed. 'Are you angry now!"Said the woman felt unerringly. ‘Nee’, the man said. "I think you get angry you look so angry," Clare said. "Yes, if you continue I will be angry," said the man, and when Clara had her goal achieved her anger played by her husband!
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