Why do not you like me?
Many people try to change the other person in their image, They play God, who also created humans in His image and likeness. They do not realize that if you want to make enemies, you should try to change the other.
An American actress said: "Women change their partner as long, until they no longer need him ', It is tragicomic.
John is a vegetarian and believes everyone should stop eating meat, he finds it cruel and stupid to eat meat, then come with all sorts of arguments to prove equal.
Annemieke is the blue button and does her best to get her partners Drink, thus they do not they always chases the door and wondered why she always attracts men who drink heavily, or sometimes to say something about her subconscious…
The pacifist says: "I am a pacifist and anyone who disagrees with me, I turn to his head .."
A woman who themselves deliberately, wise and sees spiritually, was vegetarian and did not drink and did not smoke. She fell in love with a man who was a meat eater drank and smoked and was a tough motorcycling rocker. She did her best to change it for her ideal image, when her that did not work she made it out. Her partner said:"I love you unconditionally for who you are and accept you completely and will wait for you until you go see what it's worth '. She thought about his words and understood then that she had not been the wise teacher, that it had given conditional love, that her partner had showed her what unconditional love and so was her teacher and she made it back in, and they were very happy.
I know a man who always tinkered with his friends to make them change and do not change, if they (thereby) then accounted he always gave others the blame, He saw himself as a loving and pure and was not open to self-reflection and projecting his unconscious misery on his friends who he accused, So he learned nothing from. In 5 years he wore as dozens of friends and yet he drew no conclusions from it to his own behavior!.
You can only change yourself and eventually grow and develop. Gandhi zei:’Wees zelf de verandering die je in de wereld wilt zien’
I called my friend Peter de Kock to thank him for the inspiration he gave me, including the idea to write this article. I told him I 'Why do not you get the way I had written and he said very nice: "You should do long, because we are all equal and there is no longer a problem!’. I thought it was funny.
In ho'oponopono they also keep it to himself, by changing itself shows that also change the clients, very special is that. It is also my experience that if you change, your whole world around you completely changes. people who treated you badly disappear from your life or treat you well now, quite striking that, crafty.