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a sad situation when you sell yourself short

A woman who does help me once I offered a sandwich with fried bar knitting. They hit it off. Ik zei:"Do not like bar work?"" Yes "she said," but it does not. Ik zei:"Take a cheese sandwich because you look so good '. "No," she said, "I'll take a dry sandwich" and ate them without any pleasure at. I offered her one time a fried fish and knows that she feels fine. When we ate I really enjoyed and told her; 'nice huh!’. Her comment was "the filling". Ik zei: "But it is also especially well or not,?’, She said that nothing and could get the word nice not matter r throat..

A man who came to visit me said:"You say nice things you should write a book '. I take my first book "Mirrors of the Soul," and give him by saying that he must have half the money from me so for only a tenner. He barely glanced at the book and gave it right back. On a test he scored 80% denial of needs and this man did himself so very short.

said a poor woman:"That always rotgeld!’. I told them:"You should only need rotgeld call it never comes to you, take that to heart!’. She learned nothing a few years later, I arrived at r still poor and she was again the rotgeld.

A writer wrote in his book "The best question you can ask is' what can I do for you?’’. Then you should have just me and I emailed the guy and asked what I could do for him. He replied 'nothing'. I emailed when:"Then you're either perfect or beyond help" He was not amused.

Herman Hermits speaks tukkers getting neighbors from the west inviting them to meet. 'Cup of coffee?’, asked the westerner. "Do not bother us," said the tukkers. "It's so put no effort, I like to do it', said the Westerner. ‘Nee, it does not, "said the tukkers. When tukkers other tukkers talked about the visit to the westerlngen they said 'had Weird people, it's no coffee yet'

People who make themselves deficiency sit in the defense of old pain Ingeborg Bosch 'Denial of needs' calls. It is to fight the toughest defenses because you say there's nothing going on with you and others are worse off.

I ate during the break of a lecture I gave in Zutphen, an almond cake and enjoyed it visibly and said a man:"You can enjoy so much there, I can not do that and never enjoying '. I thought then:"People who can not enjoy his soon unenjoyable!"Enjoy but not moderation, says Loesje and so it is.

What I've noticed people who make themselves deficiency is that they often have poverty consciousness and thinking deficits and thus attract their lives. Thoughts are simply the tendency to materialize and they also say that they are right..

French ran a thrift store and at the checkout, where he always hung a picture of a wanderer clad in tattered rags with text;"This man always gave the highest discounts'. And what did French, exactly, He gave the highest discounts and did himself deficit, he had all the reasonable prices and did often as half off.

People who make themselves deficiency often have difficulty receiving. And if you have, you have a problem with that idea that you are not worthy, by low self-esteem, that are so characteristic of codependency. The needs of others are much more important to them than their own food Needs, they give themselves completely empty and sacrifice themselves. They settle for a crumb that they are entitled to a loaf of bread. De Bijbel zegt het ook:'Put your light under a bushel!!"You can be there to who you are, accept yourself so valuable.

Fear of being rejected people pointing, doing himself deficit, itself off, not only themselves but also the good of others, is very sad that. Also suspicion may play a role. If people you gifts, services or amenities rejection they fear that what you want from them and seek some behind and do not commit to something having to do back. They do not know what cooperation and interdependence. Op m’n WC hangt de uitspraak:"In accepting the key to the transformation. So accept yourself first and then you accept the good of others.

I figured some aphorisms about this topic:

-There is nothing noble in order to do it yourself for the benefit of the other person deficit

-If you sell yourself short and thus mistreats the chances are that you would do with any other without realizing that

-If you sell yourself short you feel not worth much

-If you sell yourself short will give you shortages universe, you think materializes

-If you find yourself doing deficit and you will find nothing worth will partner the mirror and you treat anything worthy and you will give him the fault of your own low self-esteem