You are what you see
Debbie Ford has said that James Baldwin: "You can only face in others what you facing in yourself '. If you have no regard for your own shadow and negative sides you can see them even in the other and you can easily become a victim of what happened to me. It takes one to know one.
Wayne Dyer zei: "You are unable to see beyond, what you see from the inside out!’
was my ex-mother in law 50 year when I 25 was, and then she said to me: "When you're my age, you will see what a rotten world it is'.
I thought then: "Then you do something not quite right 'and was observing her, she was only 1 girlfriend to which they have negative gossiped about the people in the village, her husband was a tyrant and dictator who bought expensive suits for himself and his wife had run into an old dress, she was drudge, So she was right, however, her world was a rotten world they generalized it and that was not so smart of her, she thought what applies to her is valid for everyone, as they saw…
I asked a narcissist what he saw in the tree that I was pointing he said: "That tree is taller than I am," with disgust in his voice, because he wanted to be the biggest, he thought in egotermen of bigger and better. When I showed a tree my dear brother said he saw the space between the leaves and fruits, typical for him…
There was a car accident. The verpeegster saw that and said,: "If there but no casualties, I'm going to see'. The insurance saw that and said,: "It will provide a tedious claim '. The policeman saw something else and said,: "I hope the traffic may be quick passage '. The bodyshop man said: "That provides a nice turnover 'and also saw something else.
A friend of mine sees men as predators and the world as hostile. He does not look inwards and do not see that that says a lot about himself
A man came to Doetinchem and saw no amusement and entertainment, said bored, that is a nasty man, to be entertained, if necessary, because he brings nothing
The pessimist sees the difficulty in the possibilities and the optimist sees opportunities in difficulties.
Lord Krishna had two kings. One was demonic, and was hated by his people, Krishna asked the king to 2 years to travel around the world looking for a truly good person. After two years the king came back and said: "I have to disappoint you, I've looked everywhere but they are all as bad as I '. When Krishna asked the amiable and beloved king 2 year to travel around the world in search of a truly evil man. After two years the king came back and said: "I have to disappoint you, I've seen people unconscious and ignorant, but a truly bad person, I can not see '.
Honor teacher mainly saw the good in his disciples and complimented them very often and appointed the abilities and talents of his pupils, this had a chain reaction effect, the students began to see the good in each other and complimented each other and the study results were better and better. All you give attention grows!.
I did draft a brochure on codependency by an editor who was in my opinion very codependent not know to have there.
He saw only missing dots and commas, and the message was passed to him final. If you look and search for stones do not you see the diamonds.
I see on the news becoming a dozen nasty and negative events but got more attention to the 6 million volunteers who selflessly helping others. The journal creates fear and volunteers create love….
If you have love for eye you a lot of observation and it will become more and this is at the expense of the fear can not exist where there is love…