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Gevoelens

What strikes me is that many people have trouble naming, feeling and expressing their feelings. I had that myself 1992, the year of my crisis. Until then I used to always say I was fine, fine i said. My fellow patients said:"Well, Henny, you're not here for your sweaty feet, so tell me what's going on how you feel now" I had a lot of trouble with that, because I used to learn at home that you don't hang out the dirty laundry and now I was asked to show it off. Hesitantly I started and through the understanding and encouragement of my fellow patients I got better and better. I mostly felt fear and disappointment and failure. Gradually I learned to acknowledge and feel and express my feelings. Afzien van expressie leidt tot depressie, and I witnessed it up close.

I asked a friend what he felt now. He replied: "Good" I said:"Good is not a feeling but a qualification", what do you feel?’. Then he said evasively:"I feel happy". Ik zei:"That's not a feeling either" He then quickly switched to another subject and I just left it that way, he wasn't ready for his feelings yet.

During an NLP course I learned that it is good to switch between thinking, feeling and doing. If someone is in his mind ask what he feels and does and if someone is a doer ask what he thinks and feels…etc..

Feelings are not taken so seriously in the western world, Ever since Descartes' "I think, therefore I am" we have all been thinking together, at school we learn that, it is spoon-fed and we keep doing it, but happiness is a feeling, so you should pay more attention to your feelings, both the positive and the negative, see them as messengers from which we can learn a lot to come to real life and consciousness.

Gevoelens

I'm working on a book about feelings and making an inventory of feelings, I will publish what I have now, there's a lot more to come, I still have to type and process that. It was an idea of ​​Peter de Kock to put feelings on my site, bij deze:

A: to pet, adorable, blow on(ignite quarrels/emotions) attentively, condition, touching,affected, burnt, excited, grin on, touching, aanhalig, affectionate, cringe at something, overbearing, to appoint, to take offence,appealing, feel, monkey what did you play pretty boy, ground, grounding, earthy, hesitant, abominable, acclimatize, ah and woe about someone shouting, carelessly, respect, think highly of, underhand, suspicious, esteem, breathtaking, admiration, adrem, drip off,affect, go off like a watering can, affection, affinity, will face(to bump someone's head),burned down, decrepit, measured, measured, isolated from, abducted, deducted, turned down, discarded, exhausted, be finished, trite, feeling pissed off,horror, envious, dependent, afkeer, cooling down, torture, torment,disgust, awful, detached, keeping your distance, dull, repulsive, waiting, defensive, renounce, kiss, act, agitation, aggressive, aha experience, amiable, nasty, active, alarm, alert, only, left alone, very nice, dearly, least of all, be allergic to, as frozen, like in the fog, like in a vacuum, allure, ambitieus, ambivalent, amicaal, ammehoela, amoureus, different, androgyn, terrifying, terrifying, scaredy-cat, fearful, jealously, antidependent, antipathiek, anthropophobias(fear of man) monkey love, apathetic, apologetisch(defensive), appelfauwte(Light, mostly feigned fluff), appelig(slow,lifeless), appreciation,suspicious, malicious, suspicious,arm, shabby, arrogant, ascetisch, anti-social, aspiration, assertive, assimilate, daring(bold)attentive, aversion, adventurous

B:shit shit, back down, harassed, fed up with, bales like a plug, balorig, support(addglijk,quirky), banal,bang, bar, barren and angry, bars, thoughtful, calm, timid,threatened, sad, cheated, printed, beastly, to commit, coveted, desire, excited, eager,scream, understood, understanding, understanding, comfortable, please, mastered, afflicted, needy, screwed up, bekakt, complain,i waited, pinch, cool down, obtain, worried, temptation, to applaud, narrow minded, creep up, lousy,ridiculous, important, charge, slandered, belatafeld,cheated, offended, polite, loved, mothered, stuffy, cramped, limited, see bears on the road, willing, calculating, beroerd, touch, robbed, penniless, remorseful, acquiesce,civilized, ashamed, damaged,modest, protected, scolded, tear, complained, accused, infected, sneezes(steels ,geniepig), best, robbed, groping, betekenisvol, better, better than, crestfallen,pay, enchanted, got caught, mourn, involved, patronized, graceful, captivated, tremble, confirmed, inspired, patronized, liberated, inhabit, moved, hurt, possessed, inspiration, drunk, Worried, feel burdened, sweaty, succumb, shaky,bits, at hand, recover, catch up, special, inside fun, bitter, blakend, White, bleu, pleased, cheerful, crook, incredibly dangerous, bloody nervous, blood-curdling,naked, expose, to blush, boer, bofkont, good, boos, malicious, Well behaved, get vomiting tendencies, bravery, fragile, buiïg(moody),misfit, sidelined, left out, out of the ordinary, excessive, being beside oneself with fear, civil, burlesque(god)

C: cabaretesk, scoundrel(debauched), capable, whimsical(capricious,luimig) carnival, catharsis, grumpy, charismatic, charlatan, charming, charmer, chaotic, grumpy, quibbler(hair splitter), claustrophobic, clean, clear, clever, clichéd, clownesk, codependent, coherent, comfortable, commotion, compassie,competent, competitive, complete, complex,confused, connotation, consternation, cool, creative, cynical

D: satisfying, dapper, that is heartbreaking, I don't care, dazy/stupid, defensive, have the goat wig on, have a belly full of .., the hair stands on end, the stomach turns me, to be bothered, have a crush on someone, have a crush on someone, be the loser, the shivers run down my spine, have the giggles, depressed, virtuous, close to, thief, subservient, dik, feel stupid, got through the shit, dead, terrified, looking through rose-colored glasses, giddy, sad, drunk, busy, dull, devilish, dizzy, feel silly

E: echt(myself), a bitch, have a brother die of something, have a lump in one's throat, a casanova, jump a hole in the air, have a heart of stone, a block to the leg, to be a boss, a whole pie, get a cold bath, have a short fuse, have a long arm, one with the whole, get a pointy head, united, lonely, respect, ambitious, elegant, miserable, energetic, enthusiastic, annoy , look up to it like a mountain, down the pants, give up, have a belly full of it, left a hangover, don't see a hole in it anymore, have had enough, something is gnawing at me, something snaps inside me, to give a shit, euphoric, eccentric, ecstatic,

F: performance anxiety, fabulous, fanatic, fantastic, fallible, up, phenomenal, firm, fine stringed, iron, nice, fit, faint, faint, flegmatic, flexible, considerable, flashy, wrong, fragile, freewheelen, frenzy(frenzy,possession),fresh, froiseren(slightly offend), party number, fulminerend, fundamentalist, furious, was, lifeless

G: great, private, galant, gallig, pacemaker, gaping, gastromanie(sigh for good food and drink),accepted, agitated, amused, animated, disgusted, chiseled sitting, disgusted,being bitten on someone, blamed, be bound to, born, burned, flawed, broken, broken heart, used, be weighed down by.., blackmailed, charmed, civilized, compromised,concentrated, conditioned, lay low, disillusioned, disoriented, submissive,disciplined, arranged,dissociated, tolerate, dominated, monstrosity, patiently, dumped, meek, forced, powered(wound up), emotional, not worth a cent, no pain, have no foundation, have no peace in his ass,enthusiastic, spiritual shower, mentally healthy, witty,spirit power, rapture, jealous(boring,annoying),ecstatic, lucky, frustrated, aggrieved, smart, rushed, hated, want to make mincemeat out of someone, handicapped, hardened, battered, attached, moaned, hot, amusing, integrated, interested, intimidated, irritated, isolated, hunted, moaned, freak, opposed, known, geklaag,gekleineerd, cherished, squabble, offended, contrived, qualified, tormented, loaded, left, assertiveness, credible,loved, happy, lucky one, gelukzaligheid, easy, easy going, paintedraiteerd, mannered(contrived), moderate, mean, grumpy, mixed feelings, average,jovial, tempered, peace of mind, motivated, merciless,gracious, called,ignored, affectionate, pleasure, genie, genius,enjoying, pleasure, satisfaction, enough, pleasure, genotziek, used,,nuanced, peppery,sore, stimulated, touched, straightened out, refined, rammed, inhibited, reserved, called, stirred, reassured, sabotaged, shocked, Closed, stretched, cloven, disturbed, stressed out, tormented, triggered, flattered, appreciated, awesome, desirable, wanted, ordinary, blessed, NS, gezond, greed, chuckle, gnuiven, goed, good mood, good mood, good-natured, magnificent, graceful, eager, gray, Gray mouse, creepy, grim, course, delusion of greatness, grand, gluttony

H: hate, happy, hard, harmonious, heartfelt, heartless, passion, hartzeer, greed, heel, lovely, holy, homesickness, hellish, heavenly, resurrected, having it behind the elbows, have a good time, it's annoying, you don't care, be the evil animal, didn't understand something, get it on your hips, it's still in his bones, pride, highly sensitive, fear of heights, hopeful, hopeless, haughty, hubris, hewn, crying, helplessness, moody, hypocritical, hypomaan, hysteria

I: idiot, idiosyncratisch, idolate, collide with.., incompetent, independent, feeling someone's hot breath on the neck, deserted, in the clouds, in the seventh heaven, indolent, printed in a roll, imagined, to go down the wrong way, being pecked in the crest, in m’n sas, got shot in the wing, in a panic, lenient, intimacy, intuition, interdependent, entranced, in shape, sitting in sackcloth, i'm shitting his pants,

J: jealous, feeling patronized, make you fat, feeling like a failure,, feeling mentally raped, feeling a lot, feeling bad,feeling tickled, feeling lifted, youthful, itch, jolig, jong

K: kalm, cat in a strange warehouse, kattig, extremely hard, goosebumps, Great, klein, jammed, assholes, asshole, grumpy, stubbornly, korzelig, koud/kil, powerful, kregel, stingy, kribbig, itch, barely, spice-do not stir-me, kwaad, vulnerable

L: base, laugh, giggly, word, stunned, lousy, patient, empty, lethargisch, lying, lively, licht, light in my head, light-footed, ran, lovelessness, loving, lijden, funny, rude, loser, airy, his, asshole, stupid, listless,

M: macho, powerless, mighty, masterly, maliceus(malicious), manipulatief, manic, male, masochistic, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, complicit, ruthless, masterly, sympathetic, megalomaniac, melancholic, mealy, horrified, with heavy heart, with the tail between the legs, getting out of bed on the wrong foot, walk with his soul under his arm, miezerig, my blood boiled, contemptuously, inferior, misantropy, misunderstood, displeased, nauseous, foggy, gloomy, moe, despondent, brave, mugs, ascend, Nice

N: nasty, gloomy, naive, to be nasty, pushed down, dejected, negative, nervous, neutral, vain, not counted, not at ease, void, good-for-nothing, new, angry, though, nostalgic, sober, useless

O: agree, oetlul, okay, embrace, omnipotent, untouchable, independent, insignificant, misunderstood, discomfort, out of control, indefinite, carefree, put under pressure, substandard, underestimated, naughty, uncontrolled, impatient, unloved, unfortunately, insensitive, unappreciated, undesirable, inexperienced, unleaded projectile, treated unfairly, stripped, disgraced, ontevreden, disappointed, displaced, dismayed, discouraged, inadequate, moved, relax,upset, evasive, disrupted, unbearable, unsafe, unconnected, unforgiving, indifferent, imperturbable, unkempt, ill at ease, insecure, bellicose, catch your breath, at a distance, on an island, eager for effect, work on someone's mind, at ease, open staan, op m’n qui-vive, on my guard, open, feeling my best, stepped on my cock, go on wings, blown up, glorified, rushed, embarrassed, relieved, summoned, locked up, on plinth, delighted, excited, wound up, sincerely, boastful, hot-tempered, stand on his hind legs, lie on his ass,old fashioned, old, old-fashioned, feeling old sore, overactief, Handover, predominates, caught off guard, stressed, overwhelmed, to be on his way,

P: panicky, panicked, paradise, paranoia, cheeky, unlucky, pestbui, pijn, pain in the soul, pispaal, pissed off, platgewalst, enjoyable, popular, positive, talkative, irritable, pouting

R: gets to the bone, weird, rancor, founded(mobility, passion, drift,energie), furious, rebels, helplessness, relaxed, religious, right, rich, thrilling, rozig, Calm, rough bolster / white pit,

S: boring, sadistisch, samadhi, sanguine, sarcastic, satori, sattva(harmonie,Zijn,waarheid,balance)skeptical, shameless, shameful, sharp, schizoïde, clean, shy, guilty, sexually attractive/sexy, like, sensual, serene, serious, slachtoffer, sleepy, slecht, slow, smart, filthy, snibbig, sociaal, somber, special, playful, regret, spiritual, chatty, stable, prickly, strong, stiff, stoic, stoned, stout, naughty, radiant, strict, competitive, stiff, rudderless, feeling of success, rudderless, steered, suicidal, superior,

sympathetic,

T: tamas(slowness,persistence,resistance), crazy, bump into the chest, countertransference, against heug and meug, reluctantly, failed, disappointed, reproved, downcast, satisfied, animals, timid, affectionate, top, pathetic, sad, thrilling, comfortless, despite, bitch, second rate, bisexual, doubt

U: extinguished, being out of balance, exuberant, jump out of line, elated, equipped, taken by surprise, go crazy, get out of his roof, be out of his mind, exhausted

V: skillful, be off the map, be off the boil, determined, pinned, resilient, safe, vicious, responsible, bitter dheid, connected, sad, strayed, honored, satisfied, vergevingsgezind, gilded, glorified, exalted, paralysed, longing, leave, embarrassed, seduced, seductive, in love, lost, raffled, tired, humiliated, wronged, alarmed, indignant, betray, surprised, to owe, defeated, Amazed, suffocated, disturbed, comfort, trusted, trusting, bored, alienated, conceited,expectant, confused, welcomed, spoiled, effeminate, injured, sourness, vief, vies, hostile, villainous, quickly, full of pleasure, confident, full of pleasure, met, peaceful, stranger, fearful, joyful, friendly, free, worry free, free-spirited, bold, Merry, female

W: watchful, valuable, worthy, worthless, disgust/disgusted, in despair, suspicious, warm, cotton ball, cottony, born again, weary, kind-hearted, melancholy, repulsion, languish, wild, white hot, furious, vengeful, struggle, resentful,

Z: soft-spoken, seasick, Certainly, self-conscious, self dependent, complacent, smug, independent, selfish, confident, nervous, they light each other, to lean on something,sick of.., heartbroken, hold his breath, get tired of something, spit his bile, wipe his ass with, hold his heart, wipe his ass with it, zombie, scapegoat, sunny, worrisome, caring, economical, heavy, be heavy handed, heavy on the stomach, weak, black sheep, zwartgallig ,floaty, boar,