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Wat houdt je tegen?

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Wat houdt je tegen? (What limits you throw yourself on?)

Think back to your childhood. you done any of these things?

-1-You asked a question in class and everyone laughed. It meant that you were very reluctant to ask questions, because you did not want the others you would find stupid. Even now, led you tend to avoid asking questions for fear of a negative response

-2-Your family was something dysfunctional when you were growing( developed and pull your codependent). Since then repeat those patterns. Freud called the "repetition compulsion".

-3-You were taught that request was a sign of weakness. As an adult you trying to do everything yourself(counterdependent), even though you can not touch it yourself

-4-You were brought up to believe that things would have been selfish for yourself. Giving is better than receiving taught you, you're not as able to receive, have resistance against.

-5-You said or did something that made people took you seriously. It could be a parent, teacher, classmate, if someone was in a store can zijn.Tot this day you are shy and reluctant to get attention and cooperation of others.

-6-You asked for something and you ashamed before. There you said:"How can you now ask?!'' Do not you see how hard we are?'' Do not be so selfish. "And now you feel jeschuldig if you want something for yourself

-7-You brought jezefl ever embarrassed and thought:"That makes me never happen again" Now keep your back still afraid to embarrass yourself again.

-8-You often got no response to your request. That left you with the expectation that you would get more no's, So you're reluctant not to ask anything.

-9-You were 'driven': o.a.om good to do your best in school, to excel in sports, or dance or play the piano. Your parents drove you up and let you rotate many events. as an adult, rarely ask for help and you also do not expect it, your role is the showman, the hero, the people pleaser(codependent), always looking for applause and praise.

-10-Your parents said things like:"When you're born a dime , you never get a penny "and" What will people there not thinking 'and' Just do then do you crazy enough '. This leads to codependency and thus i.a.. Low self-esteem. It strikes me that many people put their light under a bushel and not freely express their uniqueness and authenticity.

Unless you have a very rare, have had a unique upbringing you will recognize at least one of these things.

You were unconsciously programmed to feel like you do not deserve the things that can lead to scarcity in your life now.

You can reprogram yourself, by processing these events in a positive way and your self talk ', your inner dialogue positively rather than negatively to. It has everything to do with self-knowledge that you are a child of God, het universum, you all and love, attention, waardering, erkenning, respect, etc. deserve and are entitled to and that you must first give it to yourself often.

De 10 these points are in fact limits that you would create for yourself, so you can not fully live and can achieve interdependence. That inner boundaries are often difficult to observe, there is a lot of self-awareness and self-knowledge needed. We do see the speck in the eye of the other and not the beam in our own eye.

 

 

 

 

 

Inverted world

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Kleine muisjes hebben grote wensjes: brood met gestampte mensjes..

Het is vaak een omgekeerde wereld : de neus loopt en de voeten ruiken. Maar ook serieus. Nietzsche heeft daar mijns inziens terecht op gewezen dat je alles om kunt draaien. Hij had het over ‘umwertung aller Werte’. Hij zei:'Beware of the 'good ones' for they are the most poisonous flies that sting'. If you call yourself good you have no awareness of your shadow side and negative side and you live with an idealized self-image and you are your own enemy without realizing it. Jesus also said:"I didn't come for the people who think themselves good enough". He also didn't think that was the best among us.

When a fool hears the truth he will say it is a lie and it is not true and reject or ridicule it. I know that with people I've told a truth, they immediately went to the countermine and contradicted me, because the idealized image must be defended at all costs, a lie must always be defended, truth never.

The fool thinks he is wise, that's why it's a fool, Here too there is an upside-down world. The wise Lao tse said:"Maybe I'm the only confused head", for everyone is always so sure of themselves' and Socrates said:’Now I know that I know nothing.’ You will only find out if you know a lot. The less people know, the more they think they know and vice versa.

One of the most beautiful statements about an inverted world I think is from Schopenhauer who said:Age after age the wise have always said the same thing, and age after age men have always done the same thing, namely the opposite.. Het is tragikomisch.

An incapable and emotionally poor psychologist hired a client who wanted to get to his feelings. Instead of honestly saying that he cannot because he is not with his feelings himself, he "treats" the client more than 7 jaar, and of course without result. Very arrogantly he puts the blame on the client who can't move forward if he can't help him, he said. He certainly has never heard of ho'oponopono that says that as a therapist you are the problem yourself because you are always there when there is a problem and so you can work on yourself to purify and cleanse yourself..

Jezus zei:'Lord forgive them for they know not what they do' That was true. The reverse is in the fact that people think they know what they are doing.,..and therefore do nothing to raise awareness..and therefore do not know that they do not know…

The demon will always appear nice and friendly to make you less alert and able to strike. The impostor will warn you about impostors to make yourself appear honest. We often show the opposite of what we are and also get to know things through their opposite.

A charlatan who scammed everyone bragged about his honesty and purity. The lol pants are often sad, they don't say for nothing: ‘cry clown cry’

The most modest person is out for compliments on his modesty, caressing his pride. The control freak thinks he is in control but lets himself be controlled. Everything you try to control, check yours.

psyche

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Psyche is Grieks voor zowel ‘t innerlijke/de ziel als voor vlinder. Ik heb een bronzen beeld van cupido, de liefdesgod en cupido pakt van de grond een vlinder op en pakt dus je innerlijk, je ziel en dat klopt je essentie is liefde.

Psyche zit in psycholoog en psychiater, maar die houden zich alles behalve met de ziel bezig, m.u.v de enkeling zoals psychiater Petri uit Maastricht. De psycholoog richt zich op je denken en soms ook voelen alsof jij dat bent. Je hebt gedachten maar bent niet je denken, je hebt gevoelens maar bent niet je gevoel. Psychologen houden zich dus bezig met wat je niet bent, met je valse zelf, je ego en proberen dat weer op te poetsen en aan te passen aan de maatschappij.

De psychiaters die ik heb ontmoet geloven niet eens in een ziel, they think you are your body,,nl,also applies here,,nl,Your body is your home that lasts a relatively short review of eternity,,nl,Psychiatrists wanted me to have the lithium which smooths the peaks and valleys increases op.Ik then heard the song by Nirvana,,nl,Kurt Cobain Lithium sang and knew then that I wanted no robot,,nl,gray mouse,,nl,without psychosis,,nl,but without real life,,nl,those peaks and valleys make life interesting and worth,,nl,Psyche as a butterfly is of course a symbol of the transformation to a new life in freedom,,nl,Hindus also talk about the births for the second time,,nl,First there is the physical birth and later mental,,nl,spiritual birth,,nl, ook hier geldt: You have a body, but are not your body. Je lichaam is je woning die relatief kort meegaat op de eeuwigheid bezien. Psychiaters wilden mij aan de lithium hebben dat vlakt de pieken af en hoogt de dalen op.Ik hoorde toen het lied van Nirvana, Kurt Cobain die Lithium zong en toen wist dat ik geen robotje wilde worden, een grijze muis, zonder psychose, maar ook zonder echt leven, die pieken en dalen maken het leven juist interessant en de moeite waard.

Psyche als vlinder staat natuurlijk symbool voor de transformatie naar een tweede leven in vrijheid. Hindoes hebben het ook over de voor de tweede maal geborenen. Eerst is er de lichamelijke geboorte en dan later de geestelijke, spirituele geboorte, which you are to raise awareness and everything will look different and your whole world around you with your change it because you changed,,nl,It is a wonderful law,,nl,but it's true is my experience,,nl,People who hurt you out of your life or help you now and those who contribute to your growth and development appear in your life,,nl,You go,,nl,Like the butterfly,,nl,from flower to flower to gather your spiritual nourishment,,nl,You learn from Buddhism,,nl,Hinduism,,nl,Jainism,,fy,shintoïsme,,en,Judaism,,nl,Taoism,,mg,christendom,,en,flowers are rich sources for,,nl,You still sees information as a message from God,,nl,'T Absolute or whatever you want to call it, and let it come gratefully,,nl,Possibilities and difficulties,,nl,birdie,,nl. Het is een wonderbaarlijke wet, maar het klopt is m’n ervaring. Mensen die je kwetsten verdwijnen uit je leven of helpen je nu en mensen die bijdragen aan je groei en ontwikkeling verschijnen in je leven. Je gaat, net als de vlinder, van bloem tot bloem om je geestelijke voeding te vergaren. Je leert van het boeddhisme, hindoeïsme, jaïnisme, shintoïsme, jodendom, taoïsme, christendom, etc.etc., die bloemen zijn dan rijke bronnen voor je. Je beschouwt steeds meer informatie als boodschap van God, Man, ‘t Absolute of hoe je het ook noemen wilt en laat het dankbaar binnenkomen…

 

 

 

Informatiefolder bewustwording

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Download the awareness brochure here:folder awareness

Bewustwording

Many people are not aware,

Because they think and dream that

They already are and therefore do nothing…..

Henny Bos – www.hennybos.com

 

 

 

Ho’oponopono

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In his book Zero Limits Dr.Joe Vitale writes about ho'oponopono. It says:'Ho'oponopono means 'to make right' or 'to correct a mistake' and 'The ho'oponopono process is to release toxic energies within you and allow an input of Divine thoughts, words, deeds and actions'

He further says:To be an effective problem solver, the therapist must be willing to 100% to be responsible for creating the problem, that means he must be willing to see that the source of the problem is the wrong thought in him and not in the client. Therapists never perceive that if there is a problem they are always there.”.

Yes the environment is the mirror of yourself and that is also the subtitle of my book 'Be mirrored' that in 2012 is going to come out. You always see yourself and often do not want to, and prefer to project onto the other.

De ho’oponopono mantra is:

-I love you

-Thank you

-I’m sorry

-Please forgive me

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