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Fear

“The greatest fear in the world
is of the opinion of others. And
the moment you are unafraid
of the crowd you are no longer
a sheep, you become a lion. A
great roar arises in your heart,
the roar of freedom…”

– Osho

Emotional Guidance Scale

The Emotional guidance scale

Abraham Hicks

-1- Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love

-2- Passion

-3- Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness

-4- Positive expectations/Belief

-5- Optimism

-6- Hopefulness/Confidence/Faith

-7- Contentment

-8- Boredom

-9- Pessimism

-10- Frustration/Irritation/Impatience

-11- Overwhelment

-12- Disappointment

-13- Doubt

-14- Worry

-15- Blame

-16- Discouragement

-17- Anger

-18- Revenge/ Retaliation

-19- Hatred/Rage

-20- Jealousy

-21- Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness

-22- Fear/Grief/Desperation/Despair/Powerlessness

Additions from me

It is striking that of the 22 named emotions 7 being positive. We should not reject the negative emotions, they are messengers

It is striking that Fear scores the lowest and love the highest. No wonder love casts out all fear.

Donker en licht

You should not fight against the dark,,nl,Self-awareness and darkness dissolves,,nl,Do not fight against the dark,,nl, maar het licht aandoen.
Door tegen het donker te vechten, geef je het aandacht, en daardoor groeit het juist. Het licht ofwel je liefde, waarheid Zelf en bewustzijn lost het donker op, het kan niet bestaan in het licht. Het donker is gebaseerd op angst, leugens, ego, onwetendheid en onbewustheid.

Please please me!!

De Beatles zongen het al: ‘Please please me, like I please you’
Het is codependent gedrag. Men wil dan graag aardig gevonden worden en denkt de liefde van buiten te kunnen halen door te pleasen.
De codependent houdt echter niet van zichzelf en dat wordt dan gespiegeld door zijn omgeving, die dan ook niet van hem houdt
Met het pleasen doe je dus jezelf tekort en geweld aan, doordat je je in bochten wringt om geliefd te worden.
Je durft niet voor de dag te komen met je ware zelf uit angst voor afwijzing en die angst trekt het gevreesde aan.
Cindy Lauper zong True colours that’s why I love You, laat dus je ware
kleuren zien.

Angst…determines that your life?!!

Schopenhauer zei: 'The sages have always said the same century after century and century after century the people have always the same, namely, the opposite is done!’. The sages were talking about your self-knowledge and guided by love instead of fear and alienate people from their true selves and allow themselves to suffer from anxiety, Schopenhauer was right.

And what does the fear: It draws on the dreaded!!’

Here some forms of anxiety, but check whether you know and you might not be aware of you because you have repressed, Be honest to yourself and your flaws dare come face. Rumi zei: "Who does not recognize his flaws is his own enemy!’

-fear of death (is also fear of life)

-angst om alleen te zijn

-separation anxiety

-bindingsangst

-Fear of Rejection

-fear to get no recognition

-fear of having no appreciation

-fear to get no respect

-fear of shortage, om tekort te komen

-fear of disease

-fear of fear

-fear of boredom

-fear of losing

-fear of disappearing

-fear aggression

-fear of excommunication

-panic

-Phobias(418 phobias Internet at angstlijst.nl)

-hypochondrie

-fear of your majesty

-fear of pain

-fear of criticism and insult

-fear of misery and misfortune

-fear of not belonging there

-smetvrees

-Fear of Flying

-Fear of madness

-fear of being disliked

-fear of the unknown

-fear of being unloved

-fear of being impotent or fragile

-fear to be wrong

-see bears on the road

-fear of making mistakes

-performance anxiety

-fear of being hurt

-fear of being cheated and deceived

-fear of becoming a victim

-OCD, obsessive-compulsive act

-PTSS (Posttraumatic stress disorder)

-fear of your true Self

-fear of exposure, that people are going to see who you really are

-fear to look stupid

-fear of failure

-fear of being robbed

-fear that wants and needs met

-fear for you (repressed) woede

-fear of gossip and backbiting

-etc., etc..

There are various fears recognizable or you are becoming aware now inneens, nice then you can do something about it. Many people are suffering from anxiety and determine where they are not even aware of it and then dominated the fear about them and they are a victim without realizing that

I believe that the Bible is right where it says that only love drives out fear, fight the fear reinforces it and you should not do to fight against the dark, but the light, the light of consciousness, zelfkennis, wisdom and love

In trying to avoid pain and adversity do we ensure that we do not really live and do not learn. No pain, no gain!!. Nisargadatta said it very nicely in a poem:

Between the banks of pain and pleasure,

the river flows,

only when thinking and feeling beaches on one of the banks

and not going with the flow,

creates misery

Would you like a fear motivation for a love motivation please contact me at: mail: hennybos@xs4all.nl, Phone: 0314-343821 of 06-10421646

Fear attracts the fearful to and keeps itself alive if you do nothing about it.

Only victims and narcissists always think to be right and the know how to do and are not open to the good news and new insights and awareness and thus remain victims and say triumphantly: "You see that I'm right!’

Tip: "Get a voice dialogue with your fear and try to understand him and ask questions, among others: "To which you want to protect me?’, "What do you want to teach me?!’, "What do you want me make it clear?’, etc.

Learner: "What drives out all fear?

Meester: 'Love!’

Learner: "What we are most afraid of?’

Meester: 'Love!’

Om te downloaden voeg ik een pdf file bij:

Angst…determines that your life?!!