What goes for the food

I had a man on the phone, I will call him Charles, who complained about the fact that a conversation formerly home always had to be interrupted for food, there he was terribly annoyed at. He praised his father, when Charles was talking to him said the father to his wife that the food could be a wait that they now had a fine conversation. Charles said he now knew how and when it happened the reenactment, the repetition compulsion as Freud called it, He told me that he had to stop now because our conversation came his wife with food(!!!). Where he embarks annoyed and disliked he did himself again, He knew the so-called, so no.