Drama
The most common theme in most people's communication is drama. Onderzocht is dat de meeste mensen 95% of their time on drama and only 5% aan essentie en ik denk dat die 5% nog aan de hoge kant is.
Just look at the mass communication media, of TV, the papers, the high-circulation tabloids, it's almost all drama. The statement is: Good news is not news, only bad news is news' In the computer industry they know the term GIGO or Gabage In – Garbage Out, What you put in comes out again, so if you feed on drama, drama will come out of you, what a misery.
If your main focus is on drama and that follows, Do you think that your own misery will be okay?, it's a wipe for bleeding, a kind of anesthetic.
I once called a man and told him that I had written something essential about him and his life if he would like to receive it and read it. He said he already had way too much information and didn't have time for it. I asked what he was reading now. Hij zei: "About the world disasters". I could hardly contain my laughter and said: “Everything you pay attention to that grows”, do you know?’, he then smiled sheepishly and broke off the conversation.
If you keep talking about drama and listening to drama you will attract it more in your life. It is the law of attraction that works flawlessly. Gedachten hebben de neiging zich te materialiseren, so watch what you think and read and take in.
A tarot teacher, who considered herself very conscious and spiritual said she was gossiping with her neighbors to fit in, instead of bringing in some essence, she howls with the wolves in the woods, not so spiritual.
An acquaintance said: ‘Mijn leven is een groot drama en wat geniet ik daar toch van’, I think he has some masochistic features. Some people enjoy their misery because it is familiar, that's what they know. The same acquaintance also said: "It could always be worse". I then said,: "Yes, that hope is always there"…
Mary J. Blige sings the song 'No more drama' about the dramas in her life, what she wants now, at the end she calls: ‘The enemy was me!’, either the enemy that was me and so it is, when we run after drama and constantly communicate about dramas, then we are our own enemy without realizing it. Then we disregard our essence in a terrible way, our true being, we don't pay any attention to that, no time for like that knowledge of mine.
Bron: Boek ‘Communicatie’ – Henny Bos (verschijnt medio 2012)