Codependentie versus leren
In a codependent family you learn to protect yourself and protect against negativity coming your way, at that time is also necessary, but later works against you, because as long as you are you can not learn in the protective shielding and attitude and everything remains the same and you're afraid of the unknown, where only the known you can scare.
In fact, when you are not in a learning attitude you by definition is in a protective and defensive attitude, as many mensen.Meer is about to read the books of Jordan & Margaret Paul, which are particularly interesting and enlightening.
Het boek ‘Do I have to give up me, to be loved by you "of Paul's was one of the best books I've ever read Attn. codependentie