Codependentie & ego

The bigger your ego, the smaller your world

One of the definitions of codependency concerns the ego and say you do codependent as you guided by your ego and / or others. My ego still plays tricks on me and is not yet ready to surrender. You do it, There on the front door and he comes through the back door inside. Nietzsche knew that and said,:"Everywhere I go I am followed by a dog called Ego '

My girlfriend and partner Elly said about ego: e—-go, yeah that would be nice.

In codependency, you also have the urge to want to be required to. That's also me with the spoon-fed, make me useful, help in the butchery. If they do not need me I feel less good and this is a signal of codependency.

When you interdependence there should be just and it is good that you are useful, but your self-esteem that is independent from, You're not dependent, your value is intrinsically.

The ego wants power like that is codependent on vehicle. Its value depends on how others think about him and he is therefore every reason to control the other person's behavior and monitor. Nietzsche called the will to power of the ego. Why do you want power?. Because you feel deep inside powerless and not in your power. You always want what you do not. The patient wants to be healthy, the poor would be rich instead of accepting what is and learn from them.

The ego makes you wise you can not function without him, you need it to survive. It is a lie that is so thick that you turned it goes beliefs and ego servant remain instead of the ego is your servant.

The ego tells you smarter, intelligent, etc. are then the other. 80% the Dutch think you have an above average intelligence!. The ego can also play the other extreme for you because you're not okay, are not good enough and he sends your inner critic that often plays a role in codependents.

There is a happy mean the Buddha pointed. Codependency is something of the extremes and that is pathologically. Codependents generally have a low self-esteem, feel less than others and find the opinion of others about them more important than their own opinion of himself, that too is again ego, never satisfied. Roy Martina called satisfaction a coma and that says a lot about the ego of the NEI-man.

For now I have a lot to ask of my ego as recovering codependent.