Check drama or blessing

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Check drama or blessing?
This book was created as a result of my experience with ca 2.500 callers/coachees, who almost all struggled with checking.
This book gives good insights into what is good to check and also when it is better not to.
A lot of what you want to check, check yours.
Checking can be good, but trust is better.
Including a test whether you are a control freak or not, don't be too quick to say you're not.
Contains 300 pages of text that matter

the stonemason

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the stonemason
The stonemason was dissatisfied with his existence, he wanted to be more powerful and looked at the king, who was much more powerful and that he wanted to be. Miraculously, he became the king and was visited by the tax inspector, who was thus even more powerful and then he became the tax inspector. But he got warm in the sun and then he wanted to become the sun and he succeeds. A cloud appeared before the sun and then it became the cloud, because it was even more powerful. Rain fell from the cloud and then it became the rain. The rain fell on the rock, who was mightier than the rain and he became the rock. And then a stonemason came to work the rock…
Bron: my book: The true master is the master student subtitled: learn from these to-the-point life wisdoms that matter comes to an end 2021 uit

See

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See

You have more control over people and things, than you think, this is evident from the following:

‘We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are’.
Anaïs Nin

You are what you see!

If you change the way you look at things, those things will change.

When you see that you change, you will see your whole world changing around you. People who were bothering you disappear from your life or are good for you and new people come into your life, who love you and contribute to your growth and development!

The observer has a great influence on what is observed, according to quantum physics.

The eye of the master, makes the horse fat! That's positive control!

Inner child – introductie

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Introduction

Then I discovered a lot of the problems, that I experience as an adult, originate in childhood, my interest in my inner child was aroused.
It was quite a task to re-establish a relationship of trust with my inner child. However, I succeeded and it showed, the solution of many problems.

Many people neglect their inner child, and are therefore too serious, serious, rational, etc. They lack the playfulness, creativiteit, spontaneity and the learning capacity of their inner child.

I am talking about inner child, but realize there could be more, this is also the focus of this special book. You can depend on your sub-personalities, I call that Intradependancy.

If your inner child is not allowed to participate in your life, it will boycott you and cause you misery. As long as you are not aware of your inner child, don't you understand why you're having problems.

The inner child should not take over, when that happens, your life will go wrong. Jeru Kabal described in his "Clarity process", that we are still like the four year old.

The cover also shows a snail and it is always at home, so you may also come home to yourSelf. The anagram of snail is class and this book is also an interesting and inspiring class, where you can learn a lot, that can enrich your life.

I have dozens of books about inner child, inner child and inner child studied, to read me in and avoid, that I reinvent the wheel.
I integrated much of what I read into my life and that led to liberation. You then discover the magisterial and Divine within you. Because you are the world and complete, everything is in you, nothing human is foreign to you.

"You teach what you want to learn" is an expression. To really understand something about my inner child, I had to write a book about it and start teaching it. This gives you a bird's eye view and you stand above the fabric.

You can read the articles in this book, read in random order, what suits you best and what interests you.

This book not only provides "nice to know" information, but also "need to know" information. It is a "must read" for anyone who wants to get to their True Self, the love is, and your inner child knows that!.

www.hennybos.com
hennybos@xs4all.nl

Displace

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Displace

If you don't want to see your own shadow and push it into your subconscious, then your environment will mirror that shadow and you will blame that environment, that which controls and dominates you. In reality, you do it yourself.

"As long as we deny and repress our dark side, it will control our lives in the form of drama and failed relationships "
Most people spend 95% van hun tijd aan drama, that controls them.

Jung: "As long as we don't make the unconscious conscious it will control our life and we call it fate and drama".

What we repress and don't want to see, will come to us in a negative sense. We'll just dismiss it as bad luck or coincidence.

What you resist not only persists, but will grow in size

If you don't want to and push it away, then you already have it!

If you just want to be the right one, and supplant your shadow side, will your environment, you often unconsciously, confront the evil and bad that you deny in yourself.
Nietzsche zei: "Beware of the" good guys ", because it is the most poisonous flies that sting ".

Confront someone who will only care about himself, love and light only find once with its dark side, which he represses. He will get mad at you, that you take him out of his illusion, he just wants confirmation.

What we often falsely repress and ignore is Self-compassion. Here is an article on Self-Compassion:

So let Self-compassion control your life in addition to love, respect and understanding. Let those values ​​take control and you will be happy!

Zelfcompassie

The beauty of self-compassion is not that negative feelings are replaced by positive ones, but that new positive feelings arise from the negative ones (Emotions) to embrace. In addition to our painful feelings, we experience positive feelings of caring and belonging. When we have compassion for ourselves, sunshine and shadow are experienced at the same time.
Kristin Neff PhD

“We can only heal from suffering when we experience it fully.”
Marcel Proust