Eén

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M’n vriendin Elly zei: ‘Als ieder mens één ander mens liefheeft en voor één ander mens zorgt wordt iedereen liefgehad en wordt er voor de hele wereld gezorgd.’ Ik vind dat een mooie gedachte en één ander dat moet toch gemakkelijk te doen zijn!

There is an old story about the time when the Buddha was enlightened.
The gods told him that he had to bring his message to the people but the Buddha refused and said that the people would not understand him and would reject and deny and would even attempt to ridicule him. The gods called to mind but the Buddha continued to refuse. Then said one God:"If there's one man who is just on the threshold, and by your words and presence to enlightenment could come you'd do it for the one man?!’, which the Buddha resounding Yes said, and was going to bring his message to the people. That story has always really appealed to me. Jesus also gave priority to the individual above the masses. It's always that one, the individual that makes the difference

In Advaita Vedanta, they are also talking about one. There is only one Being that manifests itself in different ways. Advaita means non-duality, therefore duality, but one is the unity of all.

Philip Renard writes:"You reach Advaita only complete when you reach the egoless state 'Then you are one with everything. Het ego ziet zich alleen als afge- scheiden en dan is het ik versus de ander en dus dualiteit.

David Frawley says in his book 'Vedanta meditation ":"The Vedantaweg is dissolve the mind in the Self which is our true nature, beyond the mind and its conditioning "Jesus did even when he said:"I and the Father are one" and that we can do the same thing he did and even more, he put himself out on a (ego) pedestal, which Christians have put him

Frawley writes: ‘De Vedanta beschouwt onwetendheid t.a.v. our True Self as the cause of all our problems of life 'However, the ego wants to know nothing of his ignorance and thinks everything themselves know better, even better than the wise and the ego does the opposite of what have said always point.

Furthermore Frawley writes: ‘Om waarheid te vinden moeten we zonder motief zijn. That is, we must be one with the universal motive: the world to a higher consciousness and:"Real relationship is, we ourselves in all beings and all beings see in ourselves'

That is, the I(ego)phase to the We(Self )going phase.

I once read the text contained in an I Illness and Wellness is in We.

Osho said that this is a universe and not a multiverse, what we make often. Frawley says that universal religion is universal consciousness and love. Universe means one song..

You and others are really one, het is Wij in plaats van Ik ver- sus Jij, we are gods and that is even in the Bible:"Do you not know that thou art gods!’

Everything you do to others you do in being yourself and what you give to others you actually give yourself. Je omgeving is de spiegel van jezelf!. Everything you have given can call you truly yours.

Osho gods:"Va durability is the absence of the other, and are only( are all one, one with it all ..) is the presence of yourSelf.

I think it was Erich Fromm wrote that the greatest problem of our time is that man can not only with themselves. I think because they are not one, niet uit één stuk, No friends with themselves.

Joseph Murphy schrijft in z’n boek ‘The power of your subconscious mind’:"When you give emotionally mature no negative response to criticism, resentment, resentment and hatred of others. If you would do that would mean that you descend to their state of low mental vibration and energy, and you would become one with the negative atmosphere of the other '

English latch one the same as winning. Als je één bent heb je inder- daad gewonnen, the victory over oneself is the greatest victory. Then work all sub-personality as a whole together, and you're in one piece, no more struggle between o.a. the head and the heart where Chris de Burg on singing.

Op het strand lagen honderden zeesterren en een man was bezig om ze weer in het water te gooien een voorbijganger zei: ‘Dat heeft toch geen zin het zijn er wel honderden dat maakt toch gen verschil’. De man zei met een zeester in zijn hand voor deze ene maakt het alle verschil’.

I will be happy and satisfied if I can reach one person with this letter and inspire,motiveren,enthuse and encourage. If I have one heart, one soul was able to touch, you can sign up and then I will greet you warmly.

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Nietzsche

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I am finding more than enough,,nl,I have since learned to find,,nl,Since I wind once tegenhad,,nl,I sail with the winds,,nl,This poem tells a lot about my life and appeals to me,,nl,

sindsdien heb ik geleerd te vinden.

Sinds ik de wind eens tegenhad

Zeil ik met alle winden

 

Nietzsche

 

Dit gedichtje vertelt veel over mijn leven en spreekt me zeer aan!

Macht en manipulatie

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In the drama triangle power and manipulation play a major role. Nietzsche had already Der Wille zur Macht 'that characterizes the ego. The ego that wants to play lead and playing in the drama triangle. The ego manipulates to his own way and equal to want. Machiavelli said: "The end justifies the means" and that creed used in the triangle.

George Simon Jr. -Ph.D. wrote the beautiful book 'in sheep's clothing - understanding and dealing with manipulative people' George scored points when he says that the wolves clothe themselves in sheep's clothes and appear innocent. They are often eloquent, charming and can with flattering words you get exactly where they want you have. They're without you watch that pull down and frustrate. If you do not know you can hurt and damage. All of which you are not aware you can hurt and you can win the slave and victim to be.

The prosecutor manipulates his behavior and words themselves have power. The rescuer feels deep inside worthless and wants power over the victim to feel still worth something. The victim manipulated by doing pathetic, crying and his helplessness in which he saddles the rescuer with guilt anyway to help. He ensures that the rescuer feels guilty if he does not help the victim and the victim seizes power.

If possible victim also allows for the rescuer is a bad man will feel if he does not help the victim with his misery, he still causing himself and he clean up another late. Goethe gods: "The worst thing that a human being can happen is that he is going to feel bad about themselves'

If the rescuer notices that the plaintiff victims in his place put the rescuer will sue the prosecutor and thus itself become a prosecutor and if not then helps victims. And so the circle goes on forever.

Only he who feels powerless wants power, we often want what we do not have rather than to be happy and thankful for / with what we have.

In the drama triangle is about power over others rather than the power of something and yourself.

We play in the drama triangle games with each other. The prosecutor like playing the "Now-I-Have-You-Ellen Sharing, Rescuer play "Look-Once-The-well.I-Ben 'and the victim play" Poor-I "and" Look-Once-What-You-Me-If-Lets-Do'., these are some of the many games we play.

Eric Berne wrote the book "Games people play" bad translated into Dutch by 'Ludo', it is a recommended book to be aware of the games that you play and you them to loosen and real and to be authentic.

Bron: Book The Drama Triangle’ – Henny Bos, op 5-2-2014 Henny Bos will give a lecture about power and manipulation in Groningen, Further information will follow

Eén

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M’n vriendin Elly zei:"If every man one other person loves and loved one another human being and ensures everyone is ensured for the whole world." I think that a nice thought and one other that must still easy to do!

There is an old story about the time when the Buddha was enlightened. The gods told him that he had to bring his message to the people but the Buddha refused and said that the people would not understand him and would reject and deny and would even attempt to ridicule him. The gods called to mind but the Buddha continued to refuse. Then said one God:"If there's one man who is just on the threshold, and by your words and presence to enlightenment could come you'd do it for the one man?!’, which the Buddha resounding Yes said, and was going to bring his message to the people. That story has always really appealed to me. Jesus also gave priority to the individual above the masses. It's always that one, the individual that makes the difference

In Advaita Vedanta, they are also talking about one. There is only one Being that manifests itself in different ways. Advaita means non-duality, therefore duality, but one is the unity of all.

Philip Renard writes:"You reach Advaita only complete when you reach the egoless state 'Then you are one with everything. The ego sees only as separated and then it's me versus the other and thus duality.

David Frawley says in his book 'Vedanta meditation ":"The Vedantaweg is dissolve the mind in the Self which is our true nature, beyond the mind and its conditioning "Jesus did even when he said:"I and the Father are one" and that we can do the same thing he did and even more, he put himself out on a (ego) pedestal, which Christians have put him

Frawley writes:"The Vedanta sees ignorance Attn. our True Self as the cause of all our problems of life 'However, the ego wants to know nothing of his ignorance and thinks everything themselves know better, even better than the wise and the ego does the opposite of what have said always point.

Furthermore Frawley writes:"To find truth we must be without motive. That is, we must be one with the universal motive: the world to a higher consciousness and:"Real relationship is, we ourselves in all beings and all beings see in ourselves'

That is, the I(ego)phase to the We(Self)going phase.

I once read the text contained in an I Illness and Wellness is in We.

Osho said that this is a universe and not a multiverse, what we make often. Frawley says that universal religion is universal consciousness and love. Universe means one song..

You and others are really one, it is we instead of I vs. You, we are gods and that is even in the Bible:"Do you not know that thou art gods!’

Everything you do to others you do in being yourself and what you give to others you actually give yourself. Je omgeving is de spiegel van jezelf!. Everything you have given can call you truly yours.

Osho gods:‘Eenzaamheid is de afwezigheid van de ander en alleen zijn( are all one, one with it all ..) is the presence of yourSelf.

I think it was Erich Fromm wrote that the greatest problem of our time is that man can not only with themselves. I think because they are not one, niet uit één stuk, No friends with themselves.

Joseph Murphy schrijft in z’n boek ‘The power of your subconscious mind’:"When you give emotionally mature no negative response to criticism, resentment, resentment and hatred of others. If you would do that would mean that you descend to their state of low mental vibration and energy, and you would become one with the negative atmosphere of the other '

English latch one the same as winning. If you are one you have indeed won, the victory over oneself is the greatest victory. Then work all sub-personality as a whole together, and you're in one piece, no more struggle between o.a. the head and the heart where Chris de Burg on singing.

I will be happy and satisfied if I can reach one person with this letter and inspire,motiveren,enthuse and encourage. If I have one heart, one soul was able to touch, you can sign up and then I will greet you warmly.

Bron: Boek ‘Spiegels voor de ziel’ – Henny Bos