Better communication is less stress!

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How often do you shoot a (bright) to give a response reaction in place of?

Name a common man mean and he will shoot in a common reaction and lash out at you and fix you right. Name a common man awoke and he will give a response and laugh and say that indeed he sometimes can be mean but that is not usually.

I was manager at a publishing vaktijdschiften, So it was all about communication, In addition, I was a lecturer in Utrecht and gave communication training on HBO nivean for account and learned they listen and ask open questions and determine needs. I was also director / senior consultant of my own marketing agency.

I attended many training courses on communication and read a lot about it and made myself as an expert, which led to giving a lecture on communication for a spiritual group in Goor. There is a CD of it and I offer now to. Spacious 1 hour valuable information with o.a. that your environment is the mirror of yourself, In addition, I offer you my book 'Communication' on.

Here's my offer: CD is 7 euro, is book 21,50, shipping costs 4,25 so total 32,75 now on sale for 25 euro!. It is tax deductible so you end up paying only 12 a 17 euro.

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Mail me om te bestellen: hennybos@xs4all.nl, I will send the package with an invoice to you. It's also nice to give as a present this package to friends and acquaintances.

Sincerely,

Henny Bos (www.hennybos.com)

PS: Here is a passage from my book:

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An often rather different neglected perspective in communication is listening. Diogenes has already pointed out that we have two ears and one tongue so should listen more than talk. Everyone wants to be heard but hardly anyone wants to listen. They wait until you're spoken to to come in quickly self again, or say when listening "that I had 'and takes the story then.

A good example of moderate interest in listening is that the American who had two courses on offer, an on speaking and listening skills over, Speaking for the course he received so many submissions that he 5 could start groups, of course listening skills he received no notification….

Osho be there among other things. that to be able to listen well you need to be here and now, must be vigilant and must be without judgment and thoughts. Especially the latter two are major stumbling blocks. If you have many thoughts act when listening as a kind of inner eraser for the words of others. You color t then immediately and filters, select, analyzes and interprets.

Words

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Better watch your words you speak, they tend to materialize, even the words you speak to yourself your "self-talk", when we say that we are the universe will have bad luck make sure that happens!!

Words even affect your genes and DNA!!. If you would like to receive my article on words mail me hennybos@xs4all.nl, I will mail you special product that is in my book Enriching Insights

Tantrisch denken

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Wat is tantrisch denken? Tantric thinking is a way of thinking that accepts everything and approves as it is experienced now, just as it is, without judgment or opinion. Tantric thinking is beyond 'good’ or 'poor', 'And Don'ts', "Positively’ or 'negative'. It sees and recognizes the usefulness and accuracy of all can benefit and learn from everything. It sees everything as it is, judgmentally.

If I feel sad I accept the message: "It's okay to feel sad ', I approve: And if my grief is accepted by my way of thinking, I am happy. My sadness may be there! Finally have my thoughts about my grief to feel guilty for what they are.

This is a great Tantric secret. Anything that may be, and thus is fully accepted, experienced almost automatically as happy. When I feel I let myself feel this completely sad. By fully able to experience my sadness makes me happy. I do not force me not to feel happy. I give myself permission to feel too unhappy. Both accept me as just: happy or not happy.

Approve means your ego finds himself in someone or something outside of yourself. a thought, a feeling, deed or word: your ego identifies itself with this. They are accepted by our ego. They are one of our ego.

When we our thoughts, Emotions; Accept feelings and actions, we live in unity with ourselves and we show no resistance to what we are. We stop being aggressive against ourselves, we stop fighting against ourselves.

The principles of the tantric way of thinking:

  1. Já say to all life events and all appearances of life.
  2. Thoughts, Emotions, words and deeds are neutral. We judge them to 'good', 'Bad', 'Pleasant’ of’ 'Annoying'.
  3. Everything and everyone in our lives is meant to learn and develop. Therefore, everything and everyone is welcome in our lives.
  4. It does not matter what we think or feel. Anyways we are right.

I have used this way of thinking without knowing that it was thinking Tantric. I had thought the aphorism: "The acceptance is the key to transformation" and resisted me when no longer against my depression but accepted it as a message from my higher self, I told myself: "I have a depression now, accepted that and still love me, everything is good, it is to love, and if that fails to learn from and I did and I still do.

With respect to a starting point 4 the tantric thinking I object because we can be wrong and incorrect, impure thinking and we must have the courage to correct ourselves. I have to think of a statement of Nietzsche who said: "The point is expected that they do not commit follies, which is a violation of human rights!’

Rumi zei: "He who weaknesses, limitations and shortcomings do not recognize is his own enemy '

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If someone is not nice to you…

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You'll sometimes experience that someone is not nice to you, ignores you or breaks a call or make negative comments, Your sitting nagging, you berating, no sincere attention to you, etc.

Have compassion than because he or she reveals something of himself. You are namely often treats the other in the same way as in which you treat yourself.

Someone who is not kind to you is not kind to himself, etc., ask him or her if he or she can be happy and joyful, what he or she sees as positive in your

I was once arrived at my friend Elly and a woman to visit her I also knew, she walked straight past me and saluted just Elly, went a tedious misery story to Elly and looked not once did to me. I felt I did not bijhoorde and picked up a book and read "The time has come now to reach out," I was perplexed it were coincides exactly the same words that had said a holistic practitioner one day earlier against we!!!!. What a synchronicity!!. I thanked God and wanted to unkind woman also thank for her unkind behavior, I came upon this message I took to heart, I have not thanked her for it was not her intention to help me on the contrary, she ignored me completely

When you are happy you are also kind to the other and have attention to him or her because you feel connected and not separated, as one who gives no attention. The Dala Lama said that his religion is kindness, very nice

Patience a lovely old word that we have almost forgotten. Patience is: merciful, generous, patiently, tolerant, tolerant and friendly, a beautiful and good mix seems

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Focus

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If you 10 have things, of which there 1 is good and 9 are bad and you focus is focused on that one good and it will grow at the expense of the 9 bad please go away!

If you 10 things which have been 1slecht and 9 are good and your focus is on that one bad those other 9 be bad, so strongly does the bad and negative by

If you 10 gets compliments and 1 x thus the effect of the negative criticism will 10 compliments are nullified.

When I first bought a Ford Sierra struck me just how much of it there reason!!

When I first did my best to get in touch with angels, I noticed just how many messages they send!!

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The pessimist has his focus on seeing the difficulties of the options and will therefore encounter many difficulties and encounter

The optimist has its focus on seeing opportunities in difficulties and thus will find many opportunities.

A note from 50 euro was laid on the floor of a pub, First pessimists were invited to come to the cafe, none of them saw the note from 50 lie, when optimists were one by one admitted and they all saw the note from 50 and picked it up.

If your focus is on finding stones you will not see the diamonds!!

If your focus is one that you must first see and then you believe, you will never manifest what you believe, it is in fact first believe and then see…