Anything you want to check, check yours!

Control is an issue for many of us, often without realizing it, we want to control the circumstances, people and life, and then we are just slaves and victims of.

For example, if you want to be liked, trying to control the behavior of the other person so that he or she likes you and so do you also check with him or her and you will have more value other than self-esteem and you are codependent…

I offer you now a kit to learn better by seeing your control tendencies and omit, it is a brochure on control and codependency(co-dependence of the other) from 46 pages with many useful information and a test of whether you're a control freak

In addition, I have a CD that has recorded nav. a discussion group about control.

De brochure kost 10 euro en de CD 7 euro, I now offer them together for 15 euro and I still pay the shipping costs, bestel dus gauw in de winkel dan heb je het voor de kerst nog in huis

Stop met alles onder controle te willen houden zelfs als we ons ellendig voelen willen we dat controleren door het weg te lachen, zie het bijgaande plaatje

laugh off misery

Denken

Hoe denk je?

Gedachten hebben de neiging zich te materialiseren, let dus goed op wat je zoal denkt in de loop van de dag, in plaats van het linkerijtje gedachten zou je het rechterrijtje kunnen kiezen, het is een kwestie van keuze

Tips for happiness and life

-What you see is what you get…

-Be thankful, if you are grateful you can not be unhappy

-Wil wat je hebt en bent ipv wat je niet hebt en niet bent

-Don’t die with the music still in you!!

-Integreer je Innerlijke kind dat je nu boycot,saboteert, etc. omdat het niet mee mag doen en dan word je ziek of hebt tegenslag en weet niet waarom dat is, therefore so!!

-Count your blessings

-Look at what it is rather than what is missing

-Afzien van expressie leidt tot depressie

-Smile more often also to yourself(See joke book in shop), veel lachen zorgt voor: meer weerstand, meer geluksgevoel en meer creativiteit

-See each encounter and circumstance as something to love, and if that fails to learn from then you are always winner!

-Think and work on your growth and development to a life of happiness and life(zie mijn boek ‘Geluk & Levenskunst’ in de winkel

-Rejoice often on things and then rest a blessing!!

-Guidance needed or desired call 0314-343821 for a consultation 30 euro per uur, in person or by telephone, resultaat gegarandeerd als je bereid bent om e.e.a. aan te gaan.

Deception and Distinctiveness

Ik was gisteren bij Pallas Hendriks in Arnhem, a good and wise friend of mine, she proposed to write a book about deception and distinctiveness to see when you are deceiving, the people who want power are often just out for power and influence and commercial interests

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Stressed?

Many people suffer from stress with negative consequences, because it lowers your resistance enormously, so you are sick more often and you are tired and you sleep worse, etc.etc.

Because everything in a hurry and move quickly to make things go right often much worse and we make more mistakes than we have to correct later. Goethe pointed to when he said that the best things come about if you every day doing a bit and adds

Very often you driven(lijden) what is urgent and you can not add more to what is important and essential, you have to ask yourself whether there is life after death, while you do not even live for death!!

I gained a lot of experience with stress and transforming them, also followed a course in stress counseling, I was also a work-a-holic and stress male and lived not really. Lao tse zei 500 BC: Plan your entire day full and there is no chance of life '. A statement which still is catching on and is aktueel!!

Often we grab a drink or we will smoke when stressed and we come to another addiction, that medication for yourself but not the solution. It then from bad to worse. Stop it!!

Bel 0314-343821 for an appointment for a personal or telephone consultation that will help

I just ask 30 euro per uur, so you have almost nothing to lose and much to gain, Stress makes you miserable and enslaved by the conditions rather than the master of your life and destiny.