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Omgaan met negatieve emoties

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We've learned to see negative emotions as bad and repel and repress them, so don't pay attention to them, where it is in fact messengers who can help us further. Ouspensky even called negative emotions not only bad but also useless and something for weak people. I am now writing a brochure about negative emotions, it will in 2012 be finished

” Instead of resisting
against an emotion,
is the best way to make them disappear,
just to go into it completely,
embrace them and look beyond your resistance.”
Deepak Chopra

Het herkennen van een narcist

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Narcissus die verliefd werd op z’n eigen spiegelbeeld…

Codependent people are often attracted to a narcissist and a narcissist looks for the codependent person as a partner with all the misery that entails, because a narcissist can only think of himself and see the other only as an extension of himself. The codependent tends to value the other person more than themselves, which is convenient for the narcissist.

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CD reading about codependency for LETS is out

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Today the CD with about 45 minutes of recording of the lecture about codependency was released. It is a beautiful, became an interesting CD with an active audience that makes its contribution. The CD is a recording of the program before the break. The CD requires an investment of 12,50 + shipping costs and is available at Henny Bos

Hoe blind kunnen we zijn?!

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Gibran says:'Why do we pity the blind in eye and not the blind in heart??’

De Bijbel zegt:’We zien wel de splinter in het oog van de ander maar niet de balk in ons eigen oog’. We are blind to that.

We tend not to want to see our own shadow sides and to project it onto the other. Everything that annoys and irritates you in the other are aspects of yourself that you are still blind to, that you don't want to see yet.

The master spoke in general terms of the wretched condition of a disciple, without mentioning his name. When the master had finished speaking, the disciple said::"I'm so glad you're not talking about me, for the man you describe is in serious condition.”. That's how bad we see ourselves.

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Einstein

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