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Happy New Year!

Een heel gelukkig en succesvol en gezond nieuwjaar toegewenst, ik hoop je nog vaak op m’n site te mogen begroeten

Looking back at 2011

On this last day of the year 2011 many look back on the past year. I want to do that now too. What has the year brought me?. I was able to write many brochures, especially about codependency and made CDs about codependency and the art of living & geluk. Three lectures and singing bowl concert. Launched the site. In total I have such 200 initiatives taken, of which there 50 succeeded and passed a score of 25%, which I am very happy and satisfied with.

Many articles written, some of which were published in the magazine Spiegelbeeld. I was also in Frontier magazine and Paravisie.

My Apple computer got a new hard drive, which makes it even faster and has even more memory.

Hanging out a lot with Elly and friends, learned to judge less quickly and not to interfere so quickly, interfere less in the lives of others.

DVD recordings made, 6 short videos about codependency. Written to two books viz: "Anger Motivation & codependency’ and ‘Personal boundaries & codependentie’

's new TV 102 cm bought just before IT's went bankrupt. Done a few things for the LETS. Developed my talent for good cooking, I eat even better now. More practiced in letting go and forgiving and immersed myself in anger management, repair en wabi sabi.

Read a lot in English books about codependency and made notes about it. Freed me further from being codependent on my way to interdependence. Many new contacts have arisen as a result of my writing and publications.

There was also criticism, that I can be pedantic and stubborn and show some empathy, I will take it to heart. I also received nice compliments for my work, many have put information about me on their site, or incorporated into their books and/or taken to heart.

It was striking that especially therapists appreciate my work so much and also people who are open to spiritual growth and development.

There were also conflicts. because I guard my boundaries better, learned from the conflicts that we often fight over differences in methods, but that our needs do not differ, there often lay the solution to the conflict

With a certain sadness I say goodbye to this year, that is another lesson for me in letting go and being open to the new (jaar). Jesus said it all: ‘Zie ik maak alle dingen nieuw’.

The universe

Attached is a pdf with images of our universe and to think that we have only discovered a small fraction

universe:universum.nw

Gebreid

Ik sprak laatst in een zorgcentrum wat mensen die dieren gebreid hadden en ze zeiden trots dat ze helemaal gebreid waren, waarop ik zei:’Die dieren wel maar wij niet, want wij zijn genaaid

Gevoelens

I'm working on a book about feelings and making an inventory of feelings, I will publish what I have now, there's a lot more to come, I still have to type and process that. It was an idea of ​​Peter de Kock to put feelings on my site, bij deze:

A: to pet, adorable, blow on(ignite quarrels/emotions) attentively, condition, touching,affected, burnt, excited, grin on, touching, aanhalig, affectionate, cringe at something, overbearing, to appoint, to take offence,appealing, feel, monkey what did you play pretty boy, ground, grounding, earthy, hesitant, abominable, acclimatize, ah and woe about someone shouting, carelessly, respect, think highly of, underhand, suspicious, esteem, breathtaking, admiration, adrem, drip off,affect, go off like a watering can, affection, affinity, will face(to bump someone's head),burned down, decrepit, measured, measured, isolated from, abducted, deducted, turned down, discarded, exhausted, be finished, trite, feeling pissed off,horror, envious, dependent, afkeer, cooling down, torture, torment,disgust, awful, detached, keeping your distance, dull, repulsive, waiting, defensive, renounce, kiss, act, agitation, aggressive, aha experience, amiable, nasty, active, alarm, alert, only, left alone, very nice, dearly, least of all, be allergic to, as frozen, like in the fog, like in a vacuum, allure, ambitieus, ambivalent, amicaal, ammehoela, amoureus, different, androgyn, terrifying, terrifying, scaredy-cat, fearful, jealously, antidependent, antipathiek, anthropophobias(fear of man) monkey love, apathetic, apologetisch(defensive), appelfauwte(Light, mostly feigned fluff), appelig(slow,lifeless), appreciation,suspicious, malicious, suspicious,arm, shabby, arrogant, ascetisch, anti-social, aspiration, assertive, assimilate, daring(bold)attentive, aversion, adventurous

B:shit shit, back down, harassed, fed up with, bales like a plug, balorig, support(addglijk,quirky), banal,bang, bar, barren and angry, bars, thoughtful, calm, timid,threatened, sad, cheated, printed, beastly, to commit, coveted, desire, excited, eager,scream, understood, understanding, understanding, comfortable, please, mastered, afflicted, needy, screwed up, bekakt, complain,i waited, pinch, cool down, obtain, worried, temptation, to applaud, narrow minded, creep up, lousy,ridiculous, important, charge, slandered, belatafeld,cheated, offended, polite, loved, mothered, stuffy, cramped, limited, see bears on the road, willing, calculating, beroerd, touch, robbed, penniless, remorseful, acquiesce,civilized, ashamed, damaged,modest, protected, scolded, tear, complained, accused, infected, sneezes(steels ,geniepig), best, robbed, groping, betekenisvol, better, better than, crestfallen,pay, enchanted, got caught, mourn, involved, patronized, graceful, captivated, tremble, confirmed, inspired, patronized, liberated, inhabit, moved, hurt, possessed, inspiration, drunk, Worried, feel burdened, sweaty, succumb, shaky,bits, at hand, recover, catch up, special, inside fun, bitter, blakend, White, bleu, pleased, cheerful, crook, incredibly dangerous, bloody nervous, blood-curdling,naked, expose, to blush, boer, bofkont, good, boos, malicious, Well behaved, get vomiting tendencies, bravery, fragile, buiïg(moody),misfit, sidelined, left out, out of the ordinary, excessive, being beside oneself with fear, civil, burlesque(god)

C: cabaretesk, scoundrel(debauched), capable, whimsical(capricious,luimig) carnival, catharsis, grumpy, charismatic, charlatan, charming, charmer, chaotic, grumpy, quibbler(hair splitter), claustrophobic, clean, clear, clever, clichéd, clownesk, codependent, coherent, comfortable, commotion, compassie,competent, competitive, complete, complex,confused, connotation, consternation, cool, creative, cynical

D: satisfying, dapper, that is heartbreaking, I don't care, dazy/stupid, defensive, have the goat wig on, have a belly full of .., the hair stands on end, the stomach turns me, to be bothered, have a crush on someone, have a crush on someone, be the loser, the shivers run down my spine, have the giggles, depressed, virtuous, close to, thief, subservient, dik, feel stupid, got through the shit, dead, terrified, looking through rose-colored glasses, giddy, sad, drunk, busy, dull, devilish, dizzy, feel silly

E: echt(myself), a bitch, have a brother die of something, have a lump in one's throat, a casanova, jump a hole in the air, have a heart of stone, a block to the leg, to be a boss, a whole pie, get a cold bath, have a short fuse, have a long arm, one with the whole, get a pointy head, united, lonely, respect, ambitious, elegant, miserable, energetic, enthusiastic, annoy , look up to it like a mountain, down the pants, give up, have a belly full of it, left a hangover, don't see a hole in it anymore, have had enough, something is gnawing at me, something snaps inside me, to give a shit, euphoric, eccentric, ecstatic,

F: performance anxiety, fabulous, fanatic, fantastic, fallible, up, phenomenal, firm, fine stringed, iron, nice, fit, faint, faint, flegmatic, flexible, considerable, flashy, wrong, fragile, freewheelen, frenzy(frenzy,possession),fresh, froiseren(slightly offend), party number, fulminerend, fundamentalist, furious, was, lifeless

G: great, private, galant, gallig, pacemaker, gaping, gastromanie(sigh for good food and drink),accepted, agitated, amused, animated, disgusted, chiseled sitting, disgusted,being bitten on someone, blamed, be bound to, born, burned, flawed, broken, broken heart, used, be weighed down by.., blackmailed, charmed, civilized, compromised,concentrated, conditioned, lay low, disillusioned, disoriented, submissive,disciplined, arranged,dissociated, tolerate, dominated, monstrosity, patiently, dumped, meek, forced, powered(wound up), emotional, not worth a cent, no pain, have no foundation, have no peace in his ass,enthusiastic, spiritual shower, mentally healthy, witty,spirit power, rapture, jealous(boring,annoying),ecstatic, lucky, frustrated, aggrieved, smart, rushed, hated, want to make mincemeat out of someone, handicapped, hardened, battered, attached, moaned, hot, amusing, integrated, interested, intimidated, irritated, isolated, hunted, moaned, freak, opposed, known, geklaag,gekleineerd, cherished, squabble, offended, contrived, qualified, tormented, loaded, left, assertiveness, credible,loved, happy, lucky one, gelukzaligheid, easy, easy going, paintedraiteerd, mannered(contrived), moderate, mean, grumpy, mixed feelings, average,jovial, tempered, peace of mind, motivated, merciless,gracious, called,ignored, affectionate, pleasure, genie, genius,enjoying, pleasure, satisfaction, enough, pleasure, genotziek, used,,nuanced, peppery,sore, stimulated, touched, straightened out, refined, rammed, inhibited, reserved, called, stirred, reassured, sabotaged, shocked, Closed, stretched, cloven, disturbed, stressed out, tormented, triggered, flattered, appreciated, awesome, desirable, wanted, ordinary, blessed, NS, gezond, greed, chuckle, gnuiven, goed, good mood, good mood, good-natured, magnificent, graceful, eager, gray, Gray mouse, creepy, grim, course, delusion of greatness, grand, gluttony

H: hate, happy, hard, harmonious, heartfelt, heartless, passion, hartzeer, greed, heel, lovely, holy, homesickness, hellish, heavenly, resurrected, having it behind the elbows, have a good time, it's annoying, you don't care, be the evil animal, didn't understand something, get it on your hips, it's still in his bones, pride, highly sensitive, fear of heights, hopeful, hopeless, haughty, hubris, hewn, crying, helplessness, moody, hypocritical, hypomaan, hysteria

I: idiot, idiosyncratisch, idolate, collide with.., incompetent, independent, feeling someone's hot breath on the neck, deserted, in the clouds, in the seventh heaven, indolent, printed in a roll, imagined, to go down the wrong way, being pecked in the crest, in m’n sas, got shot in the wing, in a panic, lenient, intimacy, intuition, interdependent, entranced, in shape, sitting in sackcloth, i'm shitting his pants,

J: jealous, feeling patronized, make you fat, feeling like a failure,, feeling mentally raped, feeling a lot, feeling bad,feeling tickled, feeling lifted, youthful, itch, jolig, jong

K: kalm, cat in a strange warehouse, kattig, extremely hard, goosebumps, Great, klein, jammed, assholes, asshole, grumpy, stubbornly, korzelig, koud/kil, powerful, kregel, stingy, kribbig, itch, barely, spice-do not stir-me, kwaad, vulnerable

L: base, laugh, giggly, word, stunned, lousy, patient, empty, lethargisch, lying, lively, licht, light in my head, light-footed, ran, lovelessness, loving, lijden, funny, rude, loser, airy, his, asshole, stupid, listless,

M: macho, powerless, mighty, masterly, maliceus(malicious), manipulatief, manic, male, masochistic, compassionate, compassionate, compassionate, complicit, ruthless, masterly, sympathetic, megalomaniac, melancholic, mealy, horrified, with heavy heart, with the tail between the legs, getting out of bed on the wrong foot, walk with his soul under his arm, miezerig, my blood boiled, contemptuously, inferior, misantropy, misunderstood, displeased, nauseous, foggy, gloomy, moe, despondent, brave, mugs, ascend, Nice

N: nasty, gloomy, naive, to be nasty, pushed down, dejected, negative, nervous, neutral, vain, not counted, not at ease, void, good-for-nothing, new, angry, though, nostalgic, sober, useless

O: agree, oetlul, okay, embrace, omnipotent, untouchable, independent, insignificant, misunderstood, discomfort, out of control, indefinite, carefree, put under pressure, substandard, underestimated, naughty, uncontrolled, impatient, unloved, unfortunately, insensitive, unappreciated, undesirable, inexperienced, unleaded projectile, treated unfairly, stripped, disgraced, ontevreden, disappointed, displaced, dismayed, discouraged, inadequate, moved, relax,upset, evasive, disrupted, unbearable, unsafe, unconnected, unforgiving, indifferent, imperturbable, unkempt, ill at ease, insecure, bellicose, catch your breath, at a distance, on an island, eager for effect, work on someone's mind, at ease, open staan, op m’n qui-vive, on my guard, open, feeling my best, stepped on my cock, go on wings, blown up, glorified, rushed, embarrassed, relieved, summoned, locked up, on plinth, delighted, excited, wound up, sincerely, boastful, hot-tempered, stand on his hind legs, lie on his ass,old fashioned, old, old-fashioned, feeling old sore, overactief, Handover, predominates, caught off guard, stressed, overwhelmed, to be on his way,

P: panicky, panicked, paradise, paranoia, cheeky, unlucky, pestbui, pijn, pain in the soul, pispaal, pissed off, platgewalst, enjoyable, popular, positive, talkative, irritable, pouting

R: gets to the bone, weird, rancor, founded(mobility, passion, drift,energie), furious, rebels, helplessness, relaxed, religious, right, rich, thrilling, rozig, Calm, rough bolster / white pit,

S: boring, sadistisch, samadhi, sanguine, sarcastic, satori, sattva(harmonie,Zijn,waarheid,balance)skeptical, shameless, shameful, sharp, schizoïde, clean, shy, guilty, sexually attractive/sexy, like, sensual, serene, serious, slachtoffer, sleepy, slecht, slow, smart, filthy, snibbig, sociaal, somber, special, playful, regret, spiritual, chatty, stable, prickly, strong, stiff, stoic, stoned, stout, naughty, radiant, strict, competitive, stiff, rudderless, feeling of success, rudderless, steered, suicidal, superior,

sympathetic,

T: tamas(slowness,persistence,resistance), crazy, bump into the chest, countertransference, against heug and meug, reluctantly, failed, disappointed, reproved, downcast, satisfied, animals, timid, affectionate, top, pathetic, sad, thrilling, comfortless, despite, bitch, second rate, bisexual, doubt

U: extinguished, being out of balance, exuberant, jump out of line, elated, equipped, taken by surprise, go crazy, get out of his roof, be out of his mind, exhausted

V: skillful, be off the map, be off the boil, determined, pinned, resilient, safe, vicious, responsible, bitter dheid, connected, sad, strayed, honored, satisfied, vergevingsgezind, gilded, glorified, exalted, paralysed, longing, leave, embarrassed, seduced, seductive, in love, lost, raffled, tired, humiliated, wronged, alarmed, indignant, betray, surprised, to owe, defeated, Amazed, suffocated, disturbed, comfort, trusted, trusting, bored, alienated, conceited,expectant, confused, welcomed, spoiled, effeminate, injured, sourness, vief, vies, hostile, villainous, quickly, full of pleasure, confident, full of pleasure, met, peaceful, stranger, fearful, joyful, friendly, free, worry free, free-spirited, bold, Merry, female

W: watchful, valuable, worthy, worthless, disgust/disgusted, in despair, suspicious, warm, cotton ball, cottony, born again, weary, kind-hearted, melancholy, repulsion, languish, wild, white hot, furious, vengeful, struggle, resentful,

Z: soft-spoken, seasick, Certainly, self-conscious, self dependent, complacent, smug, independent, selfish, confident, nervous, they light each other, to lean on something,sick of.., heartbroken, hold his breath, get tired of something, spit his bile, wipe his ass with, hold his heart, wipe his ass with it, zombie, scapegoat, sunny, worrisome, caring, economical, heavy, be heavy handed, heavy on the stomach, weak, black sheep, zwartgallig ,floaty, boar,