Communicatie naar het hart

If you are willing to listen to and talk about what interests the other, steal his heart. You show him that you are really interested in his life and interests and that flatters him and does him good. Maya Angelou zei: "People can forget what you did for them, […]

Love what you do

Inayat Khan pointed out the importance of love in what you do and that you can tell if something has been done with love, he also said that love and wisdom go hand in hand. God is Love and we are created in His image, so also love. When we know ourselves, we don't know […]

once, disagree

My friend Peter Jan said:"If people agree with me, I think it's deadly," I said at the time:'I do not agree with you!’. He laughed and liked it. I told him the joke about the man and woman who were in relationship counseling. The therapist asked the man why she was there […]

Stilte

"Nothing is stronger than the silence, nothing has as much power as the silence of the night "sings Stef Bos Do you dare to drop silence in your communication or do it make you nervous??. After a moment of silence, communication can often deepen. Een uitspraak is: "I know him not really, […]

Gedichtje van Nisargadatta

Wisdom tells me that I am nothing. Love tells me I'm all. Tussen die twee stroomt m’n leven Nisargadatta

Van impressiemanagement naar expressiemanagement

Many of us keep in their communication engaged in impression management, they do their best to make a good impression, to a desired impression on others behind, See my article on impression management. It would be fairer to go express management, we express our thoughts and feelings in a good way. […]