Accept yourself
/by Henny BosEen van de belangrijkste voorwaarden voor geluk en levenskunst is zelfacceptatie. Vaak willen we de goede, positieve kanten van onszelf nog wel accepteren maar verzetten ons tegen de slechte en negatieve aspecten van onszelf, dus onze acceptatie is niet volledig, niet 100%, we wijzen een essentieel deel van onszelf af en dat is een […]
New book 'The Drama Triangle’
/by Henny BosDe dramadriehoek [Forest] 25.00Larger image EUR (opens in new window) De dramadriehoek / Henny Henny Bos Bos, came in 2007 During a study counseling specialization in contact with codependency and he recognized a lot in there. In 2012 he founded the codependency network on, now there are already 80 membership. Since 1 January 2013 is Henny’s […]
Recommendations and tips
/by Henny BosIn mijn leven heb ik veel aanbevelingen en tips ontvangen van wijze mensen en uit boeken en n.a.v. trainingen en cursussen, ik wil die graag me je delen. Een leerling zei ooit tegen zijn meester: ‘Hoe kan ik u bedanken voor alles wat ik van u heb geleerd?’. De meester antwoordde: "Because of the weather by […]
A valuable insight
/by Henny BosIn Debbie Ford's book 'The dark side of the light chasers' I found a valuable insight that I want to share with you, namelijk: Everything that you repress and push away from your consciousness(especially the negative things and your shadow sides) call you to your environment, who plays those things out for you. A woman struck […]
Grenzen stellen
/by Henny BosIf you decide to withdraw from the drama triangle you're going to ask you some personal boundaries and no longer accept the unacceptable. Healthy people will thus compliment you, but the participants in the drama triangle you'll encounter a lot of resistance, they will react negatively because they profited so fine you, they will […]
Interesse
/by Henny BosI spoke with my good friend Peter Jan and he told me,,nl,"Interest that inter and esse or between and,,nl,between knowing and not knowing ',,nl,I find that very beautiful,,nl,The players of the drama triangle have no real interest in each other and to learn,,nl,because they think they already know to have,,nl,"There is a new life, but the old life shows still no interest to investigate ',,nl,There is a winner triangle,,nl,but the drama triangle players are caught up in their drama,,nl,where they are so accustomed and attached that they do not want to let go,,nl,It reminds me of the prisoners in the Bastille in France during the French Revolution,,nl: ‘Interesse dat is inter en esse ofwel tussen en zijn, tussen weten en niet-weten’, I think that's very nice. The players of the drama triangle have no real interest in each other or in finding out more, because they think they already know […]