To follow
/by Henny BosVolgen Most of us have been taught to follow the crowd. We subscribe to “tribal” thinking, which is the thinking of the masses. It is not easy to break from this type of thinking, or non-thinking. A lot of people find this a huge stumbling block because they believe what social, political, religious and other […]
Acting nice as an alternative to being honest
/by Henny BosMy experience is that most people do like to want to be liked, you could call a codependent draw. They are nice instead of honest. It is an obstacle to a good friendship I read the good book 'Caring enough to confront'. Do we care enough about the other […]
scared or depressed
/by Henny BosScared or depressed The inner child may be scared or depressed, then the following could be going on: When I am anxious it is because I am living in the future. When I am depressed it is because I am living in the past. That's right. If you live in the here and now […]
Being alone
/by Henny Bos-1282- The ability to be alone is also the ability to truly love: It may seem paradoxical to you, But that is not it. It's an essential truth. Only the people who are able to be alone, are able to really love, to share and to […]
What have I learned in 2021?
/by Henny BosWhat have I learned in 2021 : Long-suffering Being more humble Less judging, observe and see more to do God's will is love, understanding, compassion and wisdom! Keep coaching and calling, writing and publishing is service. be long-suffering: is merciful, tolerant, patiently, generous and kindness is charity, compassion and kindness, compassion, goodness, is patient without murmuring […]