Ego vs. Self
/by Henny BosEgo vs Self The ego always causes trouble and is never satisfied and never grateful. The ego is greedy and always falls short, problems with acquiring more things. The ego competes instead of cooperating with all its problems, see further the schedule:
A narcissist as a friend
/by Henny BosA narcissist as a friend? The people who appear most charming are often narcissists. Once he has won your trust he hands out the sheets and also the pillowcases, he destroys, is a wrecker. Such a 'friend' drugs you with good groceries and gifts and misleads you, he convinces you that […]
Your own enemy
/by Henny BosTo come to true friendship with ourSelf, may we first become aware of, the often unconscious, enmity. We get to know things through their opposite. When I discovered that I was an enemy to myself I started to love myself. The Bible says not for nothing: “Love your enemies!" If you […]
Intonation +
/1 Comment/by Henny BosIntonation + The way you talk to your friends, your use of voice, determines the effect of your communication. It is the tone that makes Fransen's zeggen music. By intonation is meant the melody in your voice. Have a varied melody in your voice, then the other will rather see you as a happy, […]
Busy
/by Henny BosDruk Lao tse the Chinese sage said; “Plan your whole days and there is no chance of life”. And what do the people do, and also your friends they fill their agendas and are busy with drama or a smile and a tear instead of essence. You often have to make an appointment […]
Love and wisdom
/by Henny Bos Love and wisdom Wisdom and love are necessary for true friendship. Here some information about wisdom and love. What do we look for in friendship ? A "rich relationship", where is it now? We want loved, be known and seen as we are (actually) zijn. Intimacy, vertrouwen, safety and security are keywords. Many of us […]