Communicatie zal af en toe ook leiden tot conflict, daar kom je niet onderuit. Je hebt de conflictmijders, die zich plooien naar de wensen van de ander en je hebt de conflictzoekers die graag ruzie maken, vanwege de onvrede met zichzelf waar ze zich niet eens van bewust zijn, ze projecteren de vijandschap met zichzelf […]
Durven we de ander in onze communicatie te confronteren met z’n slechte gedrag?, of doen we aardig in plaats van eerlijk te zijn?(zie m’n artikel ‘aardig doen als alternatief voor eerlijk zijn). Ik las het boek ‘Caring enough to confront’, ofwel geef je genoeg om die ander om hem te confronteren en eventueel een conflict […]
One scholar has extensive knowledge, but it may lack wisdom. Lao tse zei:"A method is taught and learned is not wise '. Knowledge can be a path to wisdom if we apply it properly in life and do not think that with our knowledge we know it […]
Marc Buelens and Ann Vermeiren wrote a book titled "Self-care" On the back cover she wrote:"How many people do not care for others?.But worry they also sufficient for himself? Self-care begins with self-knowledge. This requires standing still. Appreciate yourself and give yourself the unconditional right to exist. Self-care is often confused with selfishness, some selfishness […]
If you are willing to listen to and talk about what interests the other, steal his heart. You show him that you are really interested in his life and interests and that flatters him and does him good. Maya Angelou zei: "People can forget what you did for them, […]