Entries by Henny Bos

Regrediëren

Regress means that we return to an earlier developmental stage of our lives and so do the players in the drama triangle constantly. They are again demanding child(aanklager) or internalized rightly pointing older(aanklager) or internalized caring parent(redder/helper) or the abused child or verontachtzame(slachtoffer). Jeru Kaball schreef in zijn Clarity Process al over het feit dat […]

Macht en manipulatie

In the drama triangle power and manipulation play a major role. Nietzsche had already Der Wille zur Macht 'that characterizes the ego. The ego that wants to play lead and playing in the drama triangle. The ego manipulates to his own way and equal to want. Machiavelli said: "The end justifies the […]

Hurt people hurt…

Hurt people hurt. Either hurt people hurt and all participants in the drama triangle are hurt people. They have the best intentions in most cases but often do the bad. The Bible also states that and says: "We want the good but do the bad...". Victims often become perpetrators. Als je pijn hebt denk je alleen […]