Archive for month: December, 2019
Co creation
/by Henny BosCo creation
If you let go of control and arguing with things and people, You can reach gratitude and appreciation and that is respect and acceptance and feel the connection to everyone and everything. Then the universe will bless you, help and support. Then miracles can happen and you come to co-creation. You then enter the FLOW, and things seem to go without saying, What do Lao Tse said by not doing: wu wei!
In our desire for control, we create an image anywhere on how it should be, in our opinion, and that rigid image we hold.
Nietzsche zei: "Nothing is taken you so much displeased, then one must change its image towards you. The Bible already warns: ‘Maak van Mij geen beeld!"And we do not otherwise!
Schopenhauer zei tragicomic: ‘Eeuw na eeuw hebben de wijzen altijd hetzelfde gezegd, en eeuw na eeuw hebben de mensen altijd hetzelfde, namely, the opposite is done. Not for nothing that Jesus said on the cross: "Lord forgive them, for they know not what they do '.
The problem is that the less people know, the more they think they know and firmer is their opinion and views, where the more developed human being much more cautious in giving its opinion.
Most people co-create unconsciously controlled by their dark side, met alle ellende van dien. The intentions are usually good, maar de weg naar de hel is geplaveid met goede bedoelingen.
In my book How's read what people say about their lives: 'Nothing special', 'I can not complain'. 'His way'. Altogether no reason to hang out the flag, hence the desire for distraction and entertainment to escape from their misery!
They co-create with the pharmaceutical industry a slavery: 11 million Dutch take pills! 80% of Twente students has ever suffered from depression or anxiety. The number of people seeking solace in alcohol is also quite large, given the range of beers and wines in supermarkets.
If you wake up and are co-creating with the spiritual world you have all these distractions and addictions no longer needed, then feel gratitude, voldoening, love, vreugde, compound in place of separation, harmonie, vrede, respect, etc. Then let go of control and work with grace, and you will be blessed. Then you look forward you every day and then rest a blessing!
Tell you about the life and the magisterial is phenomenal and fascinating! That I grant you too, hence this story!
Bron: Book 'Makes Checking happy' – Henny Bos, appears over 2020, with advance registration 15% korting
Self and attention
/by Henny BosAttention shapes the self and is, in turn shaped by it.
Bron: Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihaly
Attention in the sense of mindfulness and attention creates the self and the self in turn creates the attention: that what you watch, What is your focus.
If your emphasis on love, you will notice a lot of love and that molds you into a loving being/self.
You are and become what you perceive, what you pay attention to, what has your attention and interest!
A rational person pays particular attention to his thinking, facts, numbers and statistics and that shapes and reinforces its rationality!
A person is thus controlled by his points of attention and also by his self, the two form a symbiotic relationship and thus are mutually dependent on each other.
Emotional Guidance Scale
/by Henny BosThe Emotional guidance scale
Abraham Hicks
-1- Joy/Appreciation/Empowered/Freedom/Love
-2- Passion
-3- Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
-4- Positive expectations/Belief
-5- Optimism
-6- Hopefulness/Confidence/Faith
-7- Contentment
-8- Boredom
-9- Pessimism
-10- Frustration/Irritation/Impatience
-11- Overwhelment
-12- Disappointment
-13- Doubt
-14- Worry
-15- Blame
-16- Discouragement
-17- Anger
-18- Revenge/ Retaliation
-19- Hatred/Rage
-20- Jealousy
-21- Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
-22- Fear/Grief/Desperation/Despair/Powerlessness
Additions from me
It is striking that of the 22 named emotions 7 being positive. We should not reject the negative emotions, they are messengers
It is striking that Fear scores the lowest and love the highest. No wonder love casts out all fear.
attraction
/by Henny Bos"We do not attract what we want, We attract what we are!’ – Wayne Dyer
If we have a taker in life, and always want to catch effe, says the Universe also: "Can I catch any of you". The same applies to giving, if you give your servants and prepares, The Universe does the same!
We do not see what, but what we are, see misery and insecurity, then that says a lot about you, then you pull it on.
Interesting links
Here are some interesting links for you! Enjoy your stay :)Pages
- ‘Hoe gaat het?’, over de menselijke conditie
- ‘Over de waarde van onze fouten’
- 1.Ontkenning van codependentie
- Adresgegevens
- Aforismen
- Aforismen over bewustzijn
- Afrekenen
- Anderenwaarde, over codependentie
- Anger management
- Artikel over codependentie in Paravisie
- Artikel over levenskunst
- Artikelen
- Attitudinal healing
- Attitudinal healing literatuur
- Audio bewustwording epiloog
- Audio bewustwording introductie
- Audio bewustwording verdieping
- Audio lezing codependentie LETS 13-10-2011
- Audio lezing levenskunst Loil 2011
- Basiskennis van codependentie deel 1
- Basiskennis van codependentie deel 2
- Bewustwording
- Bewustwordings tips
- Blog
- Boek: ‘Anderenwaarde, over codependentie
- Boeken
- Brochure: Controle & codependentie
- Brochure: Een introductie in codependentie
- CD codependentie Peter de Kock en Henny Bos interviewen elkaar
- CD gespreksgroep codependentie 18-12-2011
- CD interview paravisie over codependentie
- CD lezing codependentie 13-10-2011 voor de LETS
- CD lezing levenskunst in Loil
- CD lezing over codependentie
- Coaching
- Codependente grappen
- Codependente wereld
- Codependentie
- Codependentie en het innerlijke kind
- Codependentie literatuur
- Codependentie test
- codependentie-definities
- Communicatie
- Contact
- Controleren en gecontroleerd worden
- CV
- Dankbaarheid
- Dankbaarheid 2
- De baas over je subpersonen, over intradependentie
- De chinese wijze(n)
- De Dramadriehoek
- De meester en de leerling
- De spelletjes die de mensen spelen
- De symptomen van codependentie
- De Waarheid zal je vrijmaken, maar eerst woedend maken!
- Defectcharme
- Drama driehoek
- Dromen
- Dromen literatuurlijst
- Droom 16-10-2011
- Droom 22-12-2011
- Droom november 2015
- Droomduiding
- Droomduiding(kort)
- DVD codependentie
- Eén
- Een artikel over bewustzijn
- Een droom uit 2011
- Ervaringen van levenskunst
- Folder codependentie
- Geen eigenwaarde, over codependentie
- Geluk
- Geluk & Levenskunst
- Geluk 2
- Geluk 3
- Gespiegeld worden
- Helpaholics
- Het herkennen van een narcist
- Ho’oponopono
- Ho’oponopono – zero limits
- Hoe blind kunnen we zijn – artikel in Spiegelbeeld 2012
- Hoe blind kunnen we zijn?
- Hoe ga ik dromen?
- Hoe gaat het?
- Hoe kom je achter je codependentie?
- Hoe kom je van je codependentie af?!
- Homepage
- Informatiefolder bewustwording
- Initiatief
- Initiatieven
- Intradependentie
- Je eigen vijand zijn
- Kikkerbewustzijn
- Klagen
- klankschaalbad
- Levenshouding
- Levensinspiraties
- Levenskunst & geluk
- Levenskunst en geluk
- Levenskunstwetten
- Macht, een bespiegeling
- Meester en leerling 2
- Mijn account
- Mijn idee over ho’oponopono
- Mindfulness
- Mindfulness afwassen
- Mindfulness bronnen/literatuur
- Nederlandstalige boeken over codependentie
- Negatieve emoties
- Negatieve emoties
- Over mij
- Past Reality Integration info
- Persoonlijke grenzen & codependentie
- PRI
- PRI- Illusies
- Prijzen & tarieven
- Principes attitudinal healing
- Richtlijnen attitudinal healing
- Robin Norwood
- Spiegels voor de ziel
- Test ‘Hoe voel je je nu?’
- Thema’s
- Wabi sabi
- Wabi sabi literatuur
- Wat is attitudinal healing?
- Winkel
- Winkelwagen
- Woede naar jezelf
- Woede1
- Woede2
- Woedemotivatie & codependentie
- Woedemotivatie & codependentie
- You tube filmpjes over codependentie
- Zelfcompassie & codependentie
- Over mij