Sereniteit

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Serenity is a challenge for me, I'll often strongly influence me by others who can make me happy or sad, I also am sensitive to praise and blame, what with serenity is not the case.

If you take in serene thanks compliment but it does not do anything with your self-esteem, could simply be an intrinsic value

Here serenity follows:

I ask God:

the serenity to accept what can not be changed

the courage to change what can be changed

and the wisdom to tell the difference to note between them.

Serene does not mean you about anything attracts you just summarize the things personally and see things not as an attack on your person, but as an expression of another, where he himself is responsible for and which you have not to interfere. Do not interfere say Americans. Mind your own business, it is their karma.

At Serenity you are in a good balance, you are walking the middle way of the Buddha, Do not think negatively and thesis, not positive as antithesis but as synthesis, right thinking from the eightfold path of the Buddha…For me that is a thought that says: "What would love do in this case?!’. Love is God in action, then you do the will of God. St.Augustinus gods: "Do not want to love and do what you '.

Serene is, you know what the other person says about you is often a projection and not a pure and clear perception. What Peter says about Paul says more about Peter than about Paul.

If you see the flaw in the other, worse you're not there when you are serene but think first of your own imperfection and work there or accept you.

Self-acceptance is a key word at serentiteit, and the paradox is that the more you accept yourself, the more you are open to change and change and then you notice the miraculous that your whole world around you is changing. People treated you badly or do not disappear from your life and new people come into your life who love you for who you are / will be. Once you accept yourself that attracts the acceptance by others. You will always mirrored. Je omgeving is de spiegel van jezelf. If you have once through leads to serenity and liberation and much insight into yourself, bewustwording, and that is a great gift that you give yourself.

You accepted method and will see that you are perfectly imperfect and that precisely is the fascinating and interesting life…

Pijn

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Pain is inevitable linked to life and we often need as a teacher. Christiane Beerlandt wrote the tome 'The keys to self-liberation "and addresses the pain and diseases that you may have and its causes which are often mentally, They also give tips what to do about it.

In my life I have the pain of psychosis, depersonalization known and severe depression, to name a few. They were my greatest teachers. I had a hard head and thought all know it and had this pain need to come to understand and am grateful for afterwards. By knowing the pain you come to sit deep and you get depth, and I now know what real joy and gratitude.

Americans say "no pain, no gain’. Johannes Tauler zei:"The pains of the crisis are the pangs of God's birth in us" and as I have experienced it.

One day died the son of a woman, who went to the Buddha with the request to wake the child back to life. The Buddha said,; "Get some rice from a house where no pain and illness has been '. Hopeful went to the woman on path, but door after door, she realized that there had been anywhere pain and illness, She learned the lesson that every house has its cross and that they also had to learn about pain and did not need to suffer to make. She had put her happiness with her son, an external source, and understood that it had to come from within and they had to learn to let go and detach to be free.

We often want no pain and therefore do not know what is good for us. Nietzsche said that if our wishes come true we live in a hell soon and there is something in. Nisargadatta zei:Between the banks of pain and pleasure, the river flows, only when thinking and feeling beaches on one of the banks, and not going with the flow, creates misery "Pain is inevitable but that does not suffer. The Buddha said that life was suffering, but also pointed to the 4 Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path to get out.

Here are some quotes about pain:

Hurts to think a man, thoughts make a man wise, Wisdom makes life bearable. – John Patrick

Pijn: the yeast that raises the luck. – Jan Deloof

When we are deceived by someone, can the sadness to have been mistaken in him hurt more than the disadvantage that we are cheating causes. -C. J. Wijnaendts Francken

They breathe truth that breathe their words in pain – Shakespeare

Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional – unknown

Do not consider painful what is good for you – Euripides

One word frees us from all the heaviness and pain of life , that word is love – Sophocles

No pain is felt to have not been human – Jewish proverb

Painful quotes by Peter de Kock: Experience Expert Henry Rollins about pain: ‘I used to fight the pain, but recently this became clear to me: pain is not my enemy; it is my call to greatness.’

‘I think about the meaning of pain. Pain is personal. It really belongs to the one feeling it. Probably the only thing that is your own. I like mine.’

‘Some of your best moments come when you’re the king or queen of pain. That’s when you lock yourself in your room, paint your fingernails black, turn out the lights, listen to a Cure record and write poetry.’

‘Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on.’