Inverted world

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Kleine muisjes hebben grote wensjes: brood met gestampte mensjes..

Het is vaak een omgekeerde wereld : de neus loopt en de voeten ruiken. Maar ook serieus. Nietzsche heeft daar mijns inziens terecht op gewezen dat je alles om kunt draaien. Hij had het over ‘umwertung aller Werte’. Hij zei:'Beware of the 'good ones' for they are the most poisonous flies that sting'. If you call yourself good you have no awareness of your shadow side and negative side and you live with an idealized self-image and you are your own enemy without realizing it. Jesus also said:"I didn't come for the people who think themselves good enough". He also didn't think that was the best among us.

When a fool hears the truth he will say it is a lie and it is not true and reject or ridicule it. I know that with people I've told a truth, they immediately went to the countermine and contradicted me, because the idealized image must be defended at all costs, a lie must always be defended, truth never.

The fool thinks he is wise, that's why it's a fool, Here too there is an upside-down world. The wise Lao tse said:"Maybe I'm the only confused head", for everyone is always so sure of themselves' and Socrates said:’Now I know that I know nothing.’ You will only find out if you know a lot. The less people know, the more they think they know and vice versa.

One of the most beautiful statements about an inverted world I think is from Schopenhauer who said:Age after age the wise have always said the same thing, and age after age men have always done the same thing, namely the opposite.. Het is tragikomisch.

An incapable and emotionally poor psychologist hired a client who wanted to get to his feelings. Instead of honestly saying that he cannot because he is not with his feelings himself, he "treats" the client more than 7 jaar, and of course without result. Very arrogantly he puts the blame on the client who can't move forward if he can't help him, he said. He certainly has never heard of ho'oponopono that says that as a therapist you are the problem yourself because you are always there when there is a problem and so you can work on yourself to purify and cleanse yourself..

Jezus zei:'Lord forgive them for they know not what they do' That was true. The reverse is in the fact that people think they know what they are doing.,..and therefore do nothing to raise awareness..and therefore do not know that they do not know…

The demon will always appear nice and friendly to make you less alert and able to strike. The impostor will warn you about impostors to make yourself appear honest. We often show the opposite of what we are and also get to know things through their opposite.

A charlatan who scammed everyone bragged about his honesty and purity. The lol pants are often sad, they don't say for nothing: ‘cry clown cry’

The most modest person is out for compliments on his modesty, caressing his pride. The control freak thinks he is in control but lets himself be controlled. Everything you try to control, check yours.

How did you discover your codependency?

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Je ontdekt je codependentie door zelfreflectie en dat doen niet veel mensen. Confucius zei:’Helaas, ik heb nog geen mens gezien die zijn gebreken heeft kunnen bemerken en er zich innerlijk over gegispt heeft’. Je schaduwkanten durven zien, ofwel de waarheid over jezelf te durven zien. Nietzsche zei:’Hoeveel waarheid kan een mens verdragen, how much truth he ventures?!’. Freud zei:"People are better than they know, but worse than they think '

” Viewing the personal madness of course means the beginning
mental health becoming,
the beginning of healing and transcendence.”
Eckhart Tolle
Let me now speak only for myself, How I discovered my codependency?. It was initiated by a crisis, thus I became aware that I had not really lived and had many delusions, that brought me to reflect and open to new information. I followed a course went counseling specialization in CIVAS and two classes about codependency. There was to know at a definition:"Brought up in a dysfunctional family, with little or no love, warmte, nurturing, waardering,etc. and self-esteem depends on external sources ".. There also some signs enumerated and I saw it all around me, almost everyone I knew had attract codependent. I wrote the book "Mirror are" subtitled "your environment is the mirror of yourself 'and then understood that what I saw in my area was myself, that was my codependency, a revelation that was. Since then I'm really engrossed in codependency and have more than 100 English books studied.

You discover your codependency if you are open to the flaws in yourself. Rumi zei:"He who finds no flaws in himself is his own worst enemy," and I believe him, was my own enemy. Be open to your dark side and do not think you know yourself, then you put everything down and you become rigid, star..

A codependency test is also an opportunity to discover your codependency. In my booklet "An Introduction to codependency 'is a comprehensive test, can be found on my website www.hennybos.com.

If you can answer some of these questions with yes think,feel and / or trading you probably codependent:

-you are always ready for another?

-dare you say no?

-lets you violate your limits?

-you want to control?

-you have low self-esteem?

-your needs are not as important as that of another?

-You grew up in a family with little or no attention, erkenning, waardering, nurturing, warmth and love?

-You accept things that are not really acceptable?

-take the responsibility of the other on your shoulders?

-you are a 'people pleaser'?

-you feel guilty soon if you do not help others / saves?

-did you find it difficult to say no?

-Looking always for approval?

-You can find the opinion of others about you is more important than your own opinion of yourself?

You are not codependent, but you do. It is learned behavior and can therefore largely unlearned again.

Denial is one of the core brands of codependency. You simply deny that the family, whence you sprang was dysfunctional, your relationship with your partner and / or friends is dysfunctional, your relationship with yourself is dysfunctional. We are all perfectly imperfect and so there is always something going on, am so open to that. I know people who almost all questions asked above can answer yes and yet do nothing, take any action, such poor self-care they…

Het vogeltje

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Een vogeltje lag eens in bevroren toestand in de wei, op sterven na dood, een koe kreeg mededogen en scheet een warme koeievlaai over het vogeltje heen waardoor hij ontdooide. Het vogeltje begon vrolijk te fluiten en dat trok de aandacht van een vos die hem uit de stront haalde en opat. Moraal van dit verhaal: Degene die op je schijt is nog niet altijd je vijand en degene die je uit de stront haalt is nog niet altijd je vriend.

psyche

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Psyche is Grieks voor zowel ‘t innerlijke/de ziel als voor vlinder. Ik heb een bronzen beeld van cupido, de liefdesgod en cupido pakt van de grond een vlinder op en pakt dus je innerlijk, je ziel en dat klopt je essentie is liefde.

Psyche zit in psycholoog en psychiater, maar die houden zich alles behalve met de ziel bezig, m.u.v de enkeling zoals psychiater Petri uit Maastricht. De psycholoog richt zich op je denken en soms ook voelen alsof jij dat bent. Je hebt gedachten maar bent niet je denken, je hebt gevoelens maar bent niet je gevoel. Psychologen houden zich dus bezig met wat je niet bent, met je valse zelf, je ego en proberen dat weer op te poetsen en aan te passen aan de maatschappij.

De psychiaters die ik heb ontmoet geloven niet eens in een ziel, they think you are your body,,nl,also applies here,,nl,Your body is your home that lasts a relatively short review of eternity,,nl,Psychiatrists wanted me to have the lithium which smooths the peaks and valleys increases op.Ik then heard the song by Nirvana,,nl,Kurt Cobain Lithium sang and knew then that I wanted no robot,,nl,gray mouse,,nl,without psychosis,,nl,but without real life,,nl,those peaks and valleys make life interesting and worth,,nl,Psyche as a butterfly is of course a symbol of the transformation to a new life in freedom,,nl,Hindus also talk about the births for the second time,,nl,First there is the physical birth and later mental,,nl,spiritual birth,,nl, ook hier geldt: You have a body, but are not your body. Je lichaam is je woning die relatief kort meegaat op de eeuwigheid bezien. Psychiaters wilden mij aan de lithium hebben dat vlakt de pieken af en hoogt de dalen op.Ik hoorde toen het lied van Nirvana, Kurt Cobain die Lithium zong en toen wist dat ik geen robotje wilde worden, een grijze muis, zonder psychose, maar ook zonder echt leven, die pieken en dalen maken het leven juist interessant en de moeite waard.

Psyche als vlinder staat natuurlijk symbool voor de transformatie naar een tweede leven in vrijheid. Hindoes hebben het ook over de voor de tweede maal geborenen. Eerst is er de lichamelijke geboorte en dan later de geestelijke, spirituele geboorte, which you are to raise awareness and everything will look different and your whole world around you with your change it because you changed,,nl,It is a wonderful law,,nl,but it's true is my experience,,nl,People who hurt you out of your life or help you now and those who contribute to your growth and development appear in your life,,nl,You go,,nl,Like the butterfly,,nl,from flower to flower to gather your spiritual nourishment,,nl,You learn from Buddhism,,nl,Hinduism,,nl,Jainism,,fy,shintoïsme,,en,Judaism,,nl,Taoism,,mg,christendom,,en,flowers are rich sources for,,nl,You still sees information as a message from God,,nl,'T Absolute or whatever you want to call it, and let it come gratefully,,nl,Possibilities and difficulties,,nl,birdie,,nl. Het is een wonderbaarlijke wet, maar het klopt is m’n ervaring. Mensen die je kwetsten verdwijnen uit je leven of helpen je nu en mensen die bijdragen aan je groei en ontwikkeling verschijnen in je leven. Je gaat, net als de vlinder, van bloem tot bloem om je geestelijke voeding te vergaren. Je leert van het boeddhisme, hindoeïsme, jaïnisme, shintoïsme, jodendom, taoïsme, christendom, etc.etc., die bloemen zijn dan rijke bronnen voor je. Je beschouwt steeds meer informatie als boodschap van God, Man, ‘t Absolute of hoe je het ook noemen wilt en laat het dankbaar binnenkomen…

 

 

 

Mogelijkheden en moeilijkheden

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You always have a choice between possibilities and difficulties,,nl,the mass and freedom.,,nl,The pessimist sees the difficulties in the possibilities and the optimist sees the possibilities in the difficulties. The situation is the same only the attitude is different,,nl,one looks with different eyes and you are what you see,,nl,"Those who say too,,nl, de massa en de vrijheid..

De pessimist ziet de moeilijkheden in de mogelijkheden en de optimist ziet de mogelijkheden in de moeilijkheden.De situatie is hetzelfde alleen de attitude is anders, men kijkt met andere ogen en je bent wat je ziet. Ford zei:"Those who say they can and those who say they can both be right '

My friend and numerologist Gerrit calls difficult: tired body

It was held at the school once an experiment, the class was divided into two groups 15 and placed in two different premises. group 1 the teacher writes a mathematical formula on the board and says there:"This is a very difficult task, even upper classes failed to solve it ". Result: 2 of the 15 had good. group 2 in the other room, the teacher writes on the board the same formula but says there are now at:"This is a very simple task, even lower classes were able to solve it '. Result: 13 of the 15 had good! So you see again what words and expectations can make difficult or possible.

A woman who finds herself said very spiritual:"I find it so hard to be on my spiritual work, the people do not understand and are not open to '. She made it difficult to see themselves instead of options, o.a. the fact that they have a spiritual soul who feels connected with fellow human beings in bondage and loving care and that is understood by almost everyone and appreciated.

A young man who is very sensitive told: "It's so hard when my friends, show my sensitive nature, they are so macho and expect from me that I am, but then I go to my being in. What he calls his friends who do not accept him as he is and thus no friends, he seeks the difficulties.

Do you see opportunities or difficulties, you decide that self. I deny difficulties not, but they see more as challenges. In adversity and failure is your true nature really forward and if all goes well. The most successful and happy people have experienced the most setbacks and failure and learned from it…